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Abundance
Not what we have but what we enjoy constitutes our abundance. Epicurus (341-271 BC)

Accomplishments
Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing
can be done without hope and confidence. --Helen Keller

No matter what accomplishments you achieve, somebody helped
you.  -Althea Gibson

We accomplish big things by doing small things over and over.  Hal Urban 

Don't measure yourself by what you have accomplished, but by what you should have accomplished  with your ability.  John Wooden 

Accomplishment and success are often the result of  
commitment and perseverance rather than skill or talent.  
--George Van Valkenburg

Achievement
Don't mistake activity for achievement.  Business does not equal productiveness. Anon

The greatest achievements are those that benefit others. Dennis Waitley

If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe, I know I can achieve it! Reverend Jesse Jackson

Ninety-fiver percent of achieving anything is knowing what you want and paying the price to get it.  John Maxwell

Optimism is  the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence. Helen Keller

The greatest satisfaction in life is achieving what everyone said could not be done. Chinese Proverb

What the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve. Napoleon Hill


Act

It is by acts and not by ideas that people live.- Anatole France

Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail.--Charles F. Kettering

Act the way you'd like to be and soon you'll be the way
you act.   George W. Cranedietsoda

Action
Action conquers fear.--Peter N. Zarlenga

Action is the antidote to despair. Joan Baez (b. 1941)

The greatest happiness is to transform one's feelings into actions.Germaine de Stael

We are all artists, creating our masterpiece with the brush-stroke of each action.   
L. Walkup

To make progress in any field, you have to take action. John Maxwell, Thinking for a Change

When you do nothing, you feel overwhelmed and powerless.  
But when you get involved, you feel the sense of hope and  
accomplishment that comes from knowing you are working to  
make things better.   --Pauline R. Kezer  

Action   may not always bring happiness, but there is no happines without action.

Imperfect action is better than perfewct inaction. Harry Truman



Advancing
No matter how much a man can do, no matter how engaging his personality may be, he will not advance far in business if he cannot work through others. --John Craig

Advice

Write down the advice of him who loves you
though you like it not at present. English proverb

When we ask advice, we are usually looking for
an accomplice. Joseph Louis Lagrange
 

The art of advice is to make the recipient believe he thought the thought of it himself. -- Frank Tyger

Affluence
True affluence is not needing anything. Gary Snyder 

Aging
Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or  eighty. Henry Ford

Agony
There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you. Maya Angelou

Agreement
If men would consider not so much wherein they differ, as wherein they agree, there would be far less...angry feeling in the world.  Joseph Addison

If you want others to agree with you, you must first be
agreeable. - Tom Hopkins

Aim

Men his only what they aim at. Henry David Thoreau

 A soul without a high aim is like a ship without a rudder.
--Eileen Caddy, Spiritual guide and author

All

None of us is as smart as all of us. ken Blanchard
 

Altering Circumstances
So often we try to alter circumstances to suit ourselves, instead of letting them alter us, which is what they are meant to do. Mother Maribel CSMV, Superior, Community of St Mary the Virgin, Wantage, England

Our Lord did not try to alter circumstances. He submitted to them. They shaped his life and eventually brought him to Calvary. I believe we miss opportunities and lovely secrets our Lord is waiting to teach us by not taking what comes.Mother Maribel CSMV

Analysis

Analysis kills spontaneity. The grain once ground into flour, springs and germinates no more. -- Henri Frederic Amiel

Ancestors

To forget one's ancestors is to be a book without a source, a tree without a root. Chinese Proverb

Animals

The greatness of a nation can be judged by the way its animals are treated.                Mohandas Gandhi (1869-1948)

Anger
Whatever begins in anger ends in shame. Ben Franklin

Anger is our friend. Not a nice friend. Not a gentle friend. But a very, very loyal friend....It will always tell us that it is time to act in our own best interests.  Julia  Cameron The Artist's Way

No man can think clearly when his fists are clenched. George Jean Nathan

Anger is something we feel.  It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention.  Harriet Goldhor Lerner, The Dance of Anger

Anyone can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person at the right time, and for the right purpose and in the right way - that is not within everyone's power and that is not easy.  - Aristotle

Let not the sun go down on your wrath. Ephesians 4:26

Answer
It is not the answer that enlightens, but the question.
--Eugene Ionesco, dramatist

Antagonist
He that wrestles with us strengthens our nerves and sharpens our skill.  Our antagonist is our helper.      Edmund Burke

Anxiety

Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it with  
the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith.  
--Henry Ward Beecher

Anxiety is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. Arthur Somers Roche

 

Anyway

......... People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered;
forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, People may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.


If you find serenity and happiness, there may be jealousy;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.

-- Mother Theresa

 

Apology
Never ruin an apology with an excuse.  Kimberly Johnson

Appreciation

Showing our appreciation to others is one of the highest expressions of respect and courtesy. Hal Urban

 The deepest craving of human nature is the need to
be appreciated.  --William James

Approval
If a child lives with approval, he learns to live with himself.  Dorothy Law Nolte.

Architects
Don't be prisoner of your past, but the architect of your
future.  anon

Every man is the architect of his own fortune. -- Sallust

 If architects want to strengthen a decrepit arch, they icrease the load that is laid upon it, for thereby the parts are joined more firmly together. So, if therapists wish to  foster their patients' mental health, they should not be  afraid to increase that load through a reorientation toward  the meaning of one's life. 
  --Victor Frankl, Psychoanalyst & Concentration Camp Survivor  

Argue
There's only one thing worse than the man who will argue 
over anything, and that's the man who will argue over 
nothing. --Laurence Peter

Art of Living

Living well is an art which can be developed.  Of course, you will
need the basic talents to build upon: They are love of life and
ability to take great pleasure from small offerings, an assurance that
the world owes you nothing and that every gift is exactly that, a
gift. Maya Angelou
 

Art -Francis Bacon
The job of the artist is always to deepen the mystery.

Art - Salvador Dali
Those who do not want to imitate anything, produce nothing.

Art -
There are more valid facts and details in works of art than there are in history books. Charlie Chaplin
Art doesn't transform. It just plain forms. Roy Lichtenstein


Art evokes the mystery without which the world would not exist.Rene Magritte
 

Art  - Michelangelo
The true work of art is but a shadow of the divine perfection. Michelangelo
Lord, grant that I may always desire more than I can accomplish. Michelangelo
A man paints with his brains and not with his hands. Michelangelo
Beauty is the purgation of superfluities. Michelangelo
 

Art -Pablo Picasso
Art washes from the soul the dust of everyday life.Pablo Picasso

There are painters who transform the sun into a yellow spot, but there are others who, thanks  to their art and intelligence, transform a yellow spot into the sun.Pablo Picasso

Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up.Pablo Picasso

I begin with an idea and then it becomes something else.Pablo Picasso
 

Painting is just another way of keeping a diary.Pablo Picasso
 

Art - Auguste Rodin
Art is contemplation. It is the pleasure of the mind which searches into nature and which there divines the spirit of which Nature herself is animated.

Art/Artist
In a profound sense, each human life has the potentiality of becoming an art work.  To that degree, each of us can become an artist-in-life with our finest creation being our own Self.  Ira Progoff

A man who works with his hands is a laborer; a man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman; but a man who works with his hands and his brain and his heart is an artist. -Louis Nizer, lawyer (1902-1994)

 Asking
By asking for the impossible we obtain the best possible.  -- Italian Proverb

He who asks is a fool for five minutes, but he who does not ask remains a fool forever. -Chinese proverb.

Aspiration
You will become as small as your controlling desire; or as
great as your dominant aspiration. -- James Allen

If you aspire to the highest place it is no disgrace to stop at the second, or even the third. - Cicero, De Orstore 80B.C.

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astonish ourselves.  Thomas A. Edison

Attempts
In great attempts, it is glorious even to fail.
--Cassius Longinus, Roman General

Attention

That which holds our attention determines our action.  William James

Give whatever you are doing and whoever you are with the gift of attention. Jim Rohn
 

Attitude
It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult task
which, more than anything else, will affect its successful
outcome. -- William James

Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the lasts of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way. Viktor Frankl

Virtually nothing on earth can stop a person with a positive attitude who has his goal clearly in sight. Denis Waitley

The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes.  William James

 Our self-talk is our attitude. Hal Urban 

Our attitudes propel us forward toward our victories or bog us down in defeat.  Helmstetter 

Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life. John Homer Miller

Great effort springs naturally from great attitude. Pat Riley

A happy person is not a person in a certain set of
circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of
attitudes. - Hugh Downs

Any fact facing us is not as important as our attitude
toward it, for that determines our success or failure.
--Dr. Norman Vincent Peale         

Watch your manner of speech if you wish to develop a
peaceful state of mind.  Start each day by affirming
peaceful, contented and happy attitudes and your days will
tend to be pleasant and successful. -- Norman Vincent
Peale        


It's your attitude and not your aptitude that determines your altitude

A great attitude is not the result of success; success is
the result of a great attitude. - Earl Nightingale

Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation
determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do
it. - Lou Holtz

The greatest discovery of this generation is that a human being can alter their life by altering their attitude. William James

 

First we make our attitudes. Then our attitudes make us.  Dennis Waitley

They are able who think they are able. Virgil

Attitude
It is the librarian of our past.
It is the speaker of our present
It is the prophet of our future.  James Maxwell, The Winning Attitude

Outlook determines outcome; attitude determines action.  Warren Wiersbe

Author
The two most engaging powers of an author are to make new things familiar,
and familiar things new. -Samuel Johnson, lexicographer (1709-1784)

Autobiography
Autobiography is an unrivaled vehicle for telling the truth about other people.  Philip Guedalla

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B 

Battle
One battle would do more towards a Declaration of Independence
than a long chain of conclusive arguments in a provincial
convention or the Continental Congress. --Samuel Adams (1722-1803) American revolutionary

Beauty

There is in true beauty something which vulgar souls cannot  
admire.   - William Congreve  
                  

Beauty is not diminished by being shared.  
- Robert Heinlein

Become

You become what you think about.  Earl Nightingale (Ear said if you spent one hour a day pursuing your dream, you'd be a national expert in 5 years.)

 

Becoming

The highest reward for a person's toil is not what they get
for it, but what they become by it.  --John Ruskin American writer (1819-1900)

Beginning
The beginning is the most important part of the work.  - Plato, The Republic. Book II. 377B

Begin - to begin is half the work Ausonius

Being
A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write if he is to be ultimately at peace with himself. What one can be, one must be.  --Abraham Maslow

Beginning
The first step is the hardest.  --Madame De Vichy-Deffand

Begin somewhere; you cannot build a reputation on what
you intend to do.               --  Liz Smith

The beginning is half of every action. --Greek proverb

Begin doing what you want to do now. We are not living in
eternity. We have only this moment, sparkling like a star
in our hand and melting like a snowflake. --Marie Beyon Ra

Being
It is never too late to be what we might have been.
               --  George Eliot

Behavior

How can you know what is in your heart? Look at your behavior. LeRoy Eims

 

Being
A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write if he is to be ultimately at peace with himself. What one can be, one must be.  --Abraham Maslow

We are what we seem to be.
— Willard Gaylin, American psychiatrist (b. 1925)

Everybody must learn this lesson somewhere - that it costs something to be what you are.  Shirley Abbott, Womenfolks: Growing Up Down South

Become

What we become depends not on conditions but on decisions. Hal Urban 

Believe
We are inclined to believe those whom we do not know because they have never deceived us. - Samuel Johnson

When you believe that a difficulty can be overcome, you are more than halfway to victory over it already. Norman Vincent Peale

Somehow I can't believe that there are any heights that can't be scaled by a man who knows the secrets of making dreams come true. This special secret - curiosity, confidence, courage, and constancy, and the greatest of all is confidence. When you believe in a thing, believe in it all the way, implicitly and unquestionable. -- Walt Disney

If you believe you can, you probably can. If you believe you won't, you most assuredly won't. Belief is the ignition switch that gets you off the launching pad. -- Denis Waitley

The most important thing about a man is what he believes in the depth of his being. This is the thing that makes him what he is, the thing that organizes him and feeds him; the thing that keeps him going in the face of untoward circumstances; the thing that gives him resistance and drive. -- Hugh Stevenson Tigner

 

Belief in Self

People become really quite remarkable
when they start thinking that they can do things. When they
believe in themselves they have the first secret of success.  Norman Vincent Peale

Believe and act as if it were impossible to fail. Charles Kettering

Best - Doing the Best

It is funny about life: if you refuse to accept anything but the very best you
will very often get it. - W. Somerset Maugham

Always do more than is required of you.- George S. Patton

We have to do the best we can. This is our sacred human responsibility. -
Albert Einstein

Choose always the way that seems best, however rough it may be. Pythagoras
 

Believe in the best, think your best, study your best, have a goal for the best, never be satisfied with less than your best, try your best, and in the long run, things will turn out for the best. Henry Ford

Best
When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the best in ourselves.  William Arthur Ward

You get the best out of others when you get the best out of yourself.   Harvey S. Firestone

We have to do the best we can.  This is our sacred human
responsibility.      --  Albert Einstein

Bicycle
Life is like riding a bicycle.  You don't fall off unless you stop pedaling.  Claude Pipper

Biography
The History Of The World Is But The Biography Of Great People.--Thomas Caryle

Blessings
The best way for a person to have happy thoughts is to count his blessings and not his cash. Anonymous

eflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has 
many – not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have 
some.  --Charles Dickens

Blessings come disguised as problems.  Work through your problems, and blessings will follow. L. Walkup

Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself and  
know that everything in this life has a purpose. There are  
no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given  
to us to learn from.  
--Dr. Elizabeth Kebler-Ross (1926-) US writer, founder of the  
hospice care movement

Our real blessings often appear to us in the shapes of pains,  
losses and the disappointments; but let us have patience, and  
we soon shall see them in their proper figures.  
--Joseph Addison (1672-1719) English writer, statesman  

                   
A search of one's life and soul will reveal the hand of God.  
The outpouring of his blessings come with our afflictions,  
not in spite of them. Afflictions be praised.  
--Elaine Cannon American writer  

It is difficult to accept adversity as a blessing, but time  
after time that is exactly what hard times reveal themselves  
to be. How much better can we become if we take these tests  
to be the blessings that they are?  J.A. at http://www.quotes2u.com

Reflect on your present blessings, of which every man has many: not on yur past misfortunes, of which all men have some. Charles Dickens.

Bliss

Follow your bliss. Joseph Campbell

Boldness

Whatever you can do, or dream you can – begin it.  Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.   Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749-1832)

Books & Reading
Tis the good reader that makes the good book.  Ralph Waldo Emerson

Just the knowledge that a good book is awaiting one at the end of a long day makes that day happier.  Kathleen Norris.

A book is like a garden carried in a pocket. -- Chinese proverb

The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who can't read them.  Mark Twain

The end of reading is not more books, but more life.  Holbrook Jackson.

I find television very educational. Every time someone switches it on, I go into another room and read a good book. -- Groucho Marx

Where is human nature so weak as in the bookstore?  Henry Ward Beecher (1813-1887)

When I get a little money, I buy books; and if any is left, I buy food and clothes.  Desiderius Erasmus  (1466-1536).

Nothing will take the place of a shelf full of books by one's own chair. -- A. Edward Newton

Just the knowledge that a good book is awaiting one at the end of a long day makes the day happier.  Kathleen Norris

The worse thing about new books is that they keep us from reading old ones. Joseph Joubert

Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested. That is, some books are to be read only in parts, others to be read but not curiously, and some few to be read wholly, and with dilligence and attention. Francis Bacon

Some say life is the thing, but I prefer reading.Ruth Rendell

Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers. Charles Eliot

The true university of these days is a collection of books. Thomas Carlyle

Books are the carriers of civilization. Barbara Tuchman,

People who censor books are usually illiterate. John D. MacDonald, A Purple Place for Dying, 1964

When I get a little money, I buy books; and if any is left, I buy food and clothes. Desiderius Erasmus

There is something special about people who are interested in the printed word. They are a species all their own - learned, kind, knowledgeable and human.Nathan Pine

Certain books have exerted a profound influence on history, culture, civilization and scientific thought throughout recorded time.... In every historical era, we find overwhelming evidence of the power of the written word without which a high state of civilization and culture is inconceivable in any time or place. Robert Downs

It is absurd to have a hard and fast rule about what one should read and what one should not read. More than half of modern culture depends on what one should not read. Oscar Wilde

The worst thing you write is better than the best thing you didn't write.Unknown

No book is really worth reading at the age of ten which is not equally, and often far more, worth reading at the age of fifty and beyond.C. S. Lewis

The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. Mark Twain

Tis the good reader that makes a good book. Emerson

Reading maketh a full man, conference a ready man, and writing an exact man. F. Bacon

We read to know we're not alone -- C. S. Lewis

Born

We are not born all at once, but by bits. The body first, and the spirit later; and the birth and growth of the spirit, in those who are attentive to their own inner life, are slow and exceedingly painful.  Mary  Antin, The Promised Land

Boundaries

 Boundart: In political geography, an imaginary line
between two nations, separating the imaginary rights of
one from the imaginary rights of another.
-- Ambrose Bierce, The Devil's Dictionary

Brains
I not only use all the brains I have, but all I can borrow.  Woodrow Wilson

Bravery

Some have been thought brave because they were afraid to run away.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-82),

Bridges
The bridges you cross before you come to them are over rivers that aren't there.  --Gene Brown.

Bringing

It is not what the world holds for you, it's what you bring to it .   Anne of Green Gables

Burden
No one is useless in the world who lightens the burden of it for anyone else. Charles Dickens


C

Can

If you think you  can, you can. And if you think you can't, you're right. Mary Kay Ash, New York Times

Candidates
It is dangerous for a national candidate to say things that people might remember  -- Eugene McCarthy

Capacity
To measure up to all that is demanded of him, a man must
overestimate his capacities.--Johann von Wolfgang Goethe

Capturing ideas

If you haven't been capturing your ideas on paper, you're missing an opportunity to take them to the next level.  John Maxwell Thinking for a Change

Career

The best careers advice to the young is: "Find out what you like doing best t\and get someone to pay you for doing it." Katharine Whitehorn. English Newspaper Columnist

Caution
He that is overcautious will accomplish little.   J.C.F. von Schiller

Ceremony

When humans participate in ceremony, they enter a sacred space. Emotions flow more freely.  All is made new; everything becomes sacred.  Sun Bear, Native American Chief (b. 1929)

Challenge

Challenges make you discover things about yourself that
you never really knew. They're what make the instrument
stretch-what makes you go beyond the norm.-- Cicely Tyson

When you've got something to prove, there's nothing greater than a challenge. -- Terry Bradshaw

A feeling of confidence and personal power comes from
facing challenges and overcoming them. -- Brian Tracy

Accept the challenges, so that you may feel the
exhilaration of victory.-- General George S. Patton

Accept the challenges, so that you may feel the
exhilaration of victory. - General George S. Patton

Give yourself an even greater challenge than the one you are trying to master and you will develop the powers necessary to overcome the original difficulty.  William J. Bennett

Change

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Reinhold Niebuhr
 

Champ
To be a champ you have to believe in yourself when nobody else will.  Sugar Ray Robinson

Chance
Chance favors the prepared  mind.  Louis Pasteur

Change
The entire sea is altered by a single stone. Pascal

The key to change . . . is to let go of fear. --Rosanne Cash


Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed
people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing
that ever has.   --Margaret Mead

Change starts when someone sees the next step.  William Drayton

We must become the change we wish to see in the world. Mahatma Gandhi

Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.--Carol Burnett

Any change, even a change for the better, is always 
accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts. --Arnold Bennett

Change brings opportunity. -- Nido Qubein

Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that has.  Margaret Mead  (1901-1978)

In a time of rapid change, standing still is the most
dangerous course of action. -- Brian Tracy

For many people, change is more threatening than
challenging.  They see it as the destroyer of what is
familiar and comfortable rather than the creator of what is
new and exciting.-- Nido Qubein

Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks
of changing himself. Count Leo Tolstoy

Nothing will change until You change at least one thing.
What is that thing? L. Walkup

Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world.  Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.  Eleanor Roosevelt

Change

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Reinhold Niebuhr

We must become the change we wish to see in the world. Mahatma Gandhi

Remember, we cannot change anyone. The best we can do is influence their future choices. James Hunter

Change does not necessarily assure progress, but progress implacably requires change.  ~ Henry S. Commager

 

 

Character
Character is the ability to carry out a worthy decision after the emotion of making that decision has passed. Hyrum W. Smith

Character is the ability to follow through on a resolution
long after the emotion with which it was made has passed.
-- Brian Tracy

A man's own character is the arbiter of his fortune. ~Publilius Syrus

A man's character and his garden both reflect the amount of
weeding that was done during the growing season.
--W.F.C., in the Houston Post


Our character is basically a composite of our habits.
Because they are consistent, often unconscious patterns,
they constantly, daily, express our character...
Stephen Covey

Ability may get you to the top, but it takes character to
keep you there. -- John Wooden

 

Reputation is what men and women think of us; character is what God and angels know of us. — Thomas Paine

Character is simply habit long continued. — Plutarch

Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow.  
The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real  
thing.   --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865), Lincoln's Own Stories 

Personality can open doors, but only character can keep  
them open.   --Elmer G. Letterman  
                   

You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer  
and forge yourself one.   --James A. Froude (1818 - 1894)


Character is both developed and revealed by tests, and all of life is a test.   Rick Warren

Changes

Not everything that is faced can be changed. But nothing can be changed until it is faced. James Baldwin

To change one's life, start immediately. William James

There is nothing permanent except  change. Heraclitus, Greek philosopher

Reaching new goals and moving to a higher level of performance always requires change, and change feels awkward. James Maxwell

People are more scared of than than they are scared of death. C. Myss

God, give us the serenity to accept what cannot be changed; give us the courage to change what should be changed; give us the wisdom to distinguish one from the other Reinhold Niebuhr, Religious and Social Thinker

No one can persuade another to change.  Each of us guards a gate of change that can only be opened from the inside. Marilyn Ferguson

If you don't like the way the world is, you change it. you have an obligation to change it. You just do it one step at a time. Marian Edelman

All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy, for what we  leave behind is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter into another!

Character

People grow through experience if they meet life honestly  
and courageously. This is how character is built.  
--Eleanor Roosevelt (1884 - 1962)

Character is the only secure foundation of the state.
-- CALVIN COOLIDGE (1872-1933)

Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.
— Abraham Lincoln,
16th U.S. president (1809-1865)

Character, not circumstance, makes the person.
— Booker T. Washington, American educator and civil rights activist (1856-1915)


A man's character is his fate.  
-- HERACLITUS (c. 540 - c. 480 BC), Greek philosopher  
 

The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically... Intelligence plus character – that is the goal of true education. 
— Martin Luther King
Jr., American civil rights leader (1929-1968)

The measure of a man's character is what he would do if he knew he never would be found out.
— Baron Thomas Babington Macauley,
English historian and statesman (1800-1859)

You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.  
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, German poet, novelist, playwright, scientist and philosopher (1749-1832)

 

Our character...is an omen of our destiny, and the more  
integrity we have and keep, the simpler and nobler that  
destiny is likely to be.  
--George Santayana, "The German Mind: A Philosophical Diagnosis"

Every man has three characters: that which he shows, that which he has, and that which he thinks he has.
— Alphonse Karr, French journalist (1808-1890)

Children
Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them. --Lady Bird Johnson

In raising my children, I have lost my mind but found
my soul.   --Lisa T. Shepherd

Choices
All that you now have is the sum of choices you have made in the past.  All that you will create in the future is the sum of choices you make from this moment on. Skip Downing

I discovered I always have choices and sometimes it's only a choice of attitude  Judith M. Knowlton

It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets. last chapter.

The end result of your life here on earth will always be the sum total of the choices you made while you were here. Shad Helmstetter

Life is the sum of your choices.
— Albert Camus
, French "existentialist" novelist (1913-1960)

The strongest principle of growth lies in human choice.  George Eliot

The greatest power that a person possesses is the power to choose. J. Martin Kohe

 

Circumstances
Circumstances are the rulers of the weak; they are but the 
instruments of the wise.  --Samuel Lover

Our present circumstances don't determine where you can
go; they merely determine where you start.-- Nido Qubein

The people who get on in this world are the people who get
up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they
can't find them, make them.- George Bernard Shaw

Man is not the creature of circumstances; circumstances 
are the creatures of man.  Benjamin Disraeli

Circumstance
The greater part of our happiness depends on our dispositions, and not on our circumstances. We carry the seeds with us in our minds wherever we go.  --Martha Washington

 

Civilization

The true test of civilization is not the census, nor the size of cities, nor the crops – no, but the kind of man the country turns out.
— Ralph Waldo  Emerson, American essayist, philosopher and poet (1803-1882)

Cleanliness

Better keep yourself clean and bright - you are the window through which you must see the world. G. B. Shaw

To clean up the universe, clean up your own backyard. Zen saying


Coffee 
If you want to improve your understanding, drink coffee.  Sydney Smith

 

Coffee is the common man's gold and like gold, it brings to every man the feeling of luxury and nobility.  Abd-Al-Kadir  1587  

I have measured out my life with coffee spoons.  T.S. Eliot (The love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock)

[Coffee is]...the most precious of blisses.  Johann Sebastian Bach

Where coffee is served, there is grace and splendor (anonymous)

Good coffee is black as sin, pure as the angels, strong as death, and sweet as love. Creole saying

College
College is a place where a student ought  to learn not so much how to make a living, but how to live.  Dr. William Nolen.

Comfort

Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted. The Beatitudes

We find comfort among those who agree with us, growth among those who don't Frank Clark

Comfortable
Be willing to be uncomfortable. Be comfortable being uncomfortable.  It may get tough, but it's a small price to pay for living a dream.  Peter McWilliams

Commitment

Individual commitment to a group effort -- that is what
makes a team work, a company work, a society work, a
civilization work. --Vince Lombardi

Total commitment is the common denominator among successful men and women.  Joyce Brothers

Loving involves commitment. We are not automatic lovers of
self, others, world, or God. Love does not just happen. We
are not love machines, puppets on the strings of a deity
called "love." Love is a choice, not simply, or necessarily,
a rational choice, but rather a willingness to be present to
others without pretense or guile. --Carter Heywood

Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to
draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of
initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth the
ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid
plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then
providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one
that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream
of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor
all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material
assistance which no man could have dreamed would have come
his way. Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it.
Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now.
-- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
 

Communication
The most important thing in communication  is to hear what isn't being said.  Peter F. Drucker

The metacommunicational axiom of the pragmatics of communication can be postulated: one
cannot not communicate. Watzlawick P., Beavin, J., & Jackson, D. (1967). The pragmatics of human communication (pp. 51). New York: W.W. Norton

Once a human being has arrived on this earth, communication is the largest single factor determining what kind of relationships he makes with others and what happens to him in the world about him. Virginia Saatir Peoplemaking

Comparing

A common pitfall on the path to excellence is an overemphasis on comparing our progress with others. Michael Gelb

Sympathy sees and says, 'I'm sorry.'
Compassion sees and says, 'I'll help.  anonymous

Compassion, in which all ethics must take root, can only attain its full breadth and depth if it embraces all living creatures and does not limit itself to mankind. Albert Schweitzer (1875-1965)

Compassion for myself is the most powerful healer of them all. Theodore Isaac Rubin

Every moment spent expressing compassion for another is a holy moment. Dr. Richard Carlson

Complaining

I never complained of my condition but once, said an old man - when my feet were bare, and I had no money to buy shoes; but I met a man without feet, and became contented. H.  K. White

Compromise
Life is a compromise of what your ego wants to do, 
experience tells you to do, and what your nerves let you do. --Bruce Crampton

Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got.

Computers
Computer
Science is no more about computers than astronomy is about telescopes.   E. W. Dijkstra

Concern

Concern should drive us into action and not into a depression. Karen Horney, Self-Analysis

Confidence
As is our confidence, so is our capacity."  --William Hazlitt

Conscience

Cowardice asks the question, ‘Is it safe?’  
Expediency asks the question, ‘Is it politic?’  
And Vanity comes along and asks the question, ‘Is it popular?’  
But Conscience asks the question ‘Is it right?’  

And there comes a time when one must take a position that  
is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must do  
it because Conscience tells him it is right.  
-- Martin Luther King

 While conscience is our friend, all is at peace; however
once it is offended, farewell to a tranquil mind.
--Mary Wortley Montagu
 

I know what conscience is, to begin with. It is not what you  
told me it was. It is the divinest thing in us.  
--Oscar Wilde, from The Picture of Dorian Gray  

                    
All a man can betray is his conscience.  
--Joseph Conrad, from Under Western Eyes  

Never do anything against conscience even if the state  
demands it.   --Albert Einstein (1879-1955)  

                     

In matters of conscience, the law of the majority has no  
place.   --Gandhi (1869-1948)
 

Conservative
A conservative is a man who sits and thinks, mostly sits.
-- Woodrow Wilson (1856 - 1924)

Constant effort

It's the constant and determined effort that breaks down all resistance and sweeps away all obstacles.-- Claude M. Bristol

Consultant
My greatest strength as a consultant is to be ignorant and 
ask a few questions. -Peter Drucker


Nothing will content him who is not content with a little.  --Greek proverb

True contentment . . . is getting out of any situation all that there is in it.  --G. K. Chesterton

Contentment
We may pass violets looking for roses. We may pass contentment looking for victory.  Bern Williams

He who is not contended with what he has, would not be contended with what he would like to have. Socrates

Contribution to the world

What we have to contribute is both unique and irreplaceable.  What we withhold from life is lost from life.  The entire world depends upon our individual choices. Duane Elgin , author of Voluntary Simplicity

Conviction

Conviction is worthless unless it is converted into conduct. -- Thomas Carlysle

 

Cooperation - Working Together

Dependent people need others to get what they want. Independent people can get what they want through their own efforts. Interdependent people combine their own efforts with the efforts of others to achieve their greatest success. -- Stephen Covey 

Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much. -– Helen Keller

 

Courage
You become courageous by doing courageous acts...  Courage is a habit.  -- Mary Daly

Courage is the power to let go of the familiar. Raymond Linquist


Courage is the ladder on which all the other virtues mount.
--Clare Booth Luce

Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear -- not absence of fear. -- Mark Twain

A man of courage flees forward in the midst of new things.
-- Jacques Maritain

Dare to go forward. Courage is the mark of greatness in leadership. -- Brian Tracy

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.-Ambrose Redmoon

To dream anything that you want to dream, that is the beauty of the human mind. To do anything that you want to do, that is the strength of the human will. To trust
yourself, to test your limits, that is the courage to succeed. -- Bernard Edmonds

  The courage of life is often a less dramatic spectacle     than the courage of a final moment; but it is no less a     magnificent mixture of triumph and tragedy.     --John F. Kennedy  

  Courage doesn't always roar.  Sometimes courage is the  ittle voice at the end of the day that says I'll try     again tomorrow.    --Mary Anne Radmacher  

 Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear - not absence of fear.  -- Mark Twain (1835-1910) Pudd'nhead Wilson's Calendar, 1894  

It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded. -- Anne Morrow Lindbergh

  Every man has his own courage, and is betrayed because he     seeks in himself the courage of other persons.     --Ralph Waldo Emerson  

To dream anything that you want to dream, that is the
beauty of the human mind. To do anything that you want to
do, that is the strength of the human will. To trust
yourself, to test your limits, that is the courage to
succeed. -- Bernard Edmonds

Courage is your willingness to take action with no guarantee of results. -- Brian Tracy

Courage is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm. -- Winston Churchill

It is curious that physical courage should be so common     in the world and moral courage so rare. --Mark Twain  

 

Courtesy

Nothing is ever lost by courtesy. it is the cheapest of the pleasures: costs nothing and conveys much. Erastus Wilman

Cowards
Cowards
die many times before their deaths; the valiant
never taste of death but once.: Julius Caesar / Shakespeare 

Creativity
Creative minds have always been known to survive any kind of 
bad training. --Anna Freud

Credit
It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.  -- Harry S. Truman 

Critic
A critic is a man who knows the way but can't drive the car.   -- Kenneth Tynan

Criticize

He has the right to criticize who has the heart to help. Abraham Lincoln

Crown

Your cross is your crown. L. Walkup

Curiosity

Curiosity is one of the permanent and certain characteristics of a vigorous mind. -- Samuel Johnson


D

Dare
Only those who dare, truly live. --Ruth Freedman

Far better to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory, nor defeat. -- Theodore Roosevelt
 

Days
Make each day count, but don't count each day.

How we spend our days is how we spend our lives.      --  Annie Dilliard

A day will never be anymore than what you make of it. 
Practice being a 'doer'!      --  Josh S. Hinds

How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives.
--Annie Dillard, Author of "Tinker Creek"
 

Decisions
Once a decision was made, I did not worry about it afterward.  --Harry S. Truman

It's in your moments of decision that your destiny is
shaped. -- Anthony Robbins

Deeds 
Men are all alike in their promises. It is only in their deeds that they differ.-Moliere

Defeat
What is defeat? Nothing but education, nothing but the first
step to something better. --Wendell Phillips

  Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up  is what makes it permanent.   --Marilyn vos Savant  

Desire
Lord grant that I may always desire more than I can accomplish.  Michelangelo

It's the soul's duty to be loyal to its own desires.  --Rebecca West

Motivation starts with a sense of desire….When you want something, you become motivated to get it.  Denis Waitley 

Desire is the seed from which all achievement grows. More than any other characteristic, it determines whether we’re going to be mediocre or successful in life.  Desire, not ability separates average people from those who excel.  Hal Urban

There is no such thing as can't, only won't. If you're
qualified, all it takes is a burning desire to accomplish, to
make a change. Go forward, go backward. whatever it takes.
--Jan Ashford

Destiny
Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice.  William Jennings Bryant

Destiny
Decisions determine destiny.  --Frederick Speakman.

To grow, you must be willing to let your present and
future be totally unlike your past. Your history is not
your destiny. -- Alan Cohen

Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of
choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing
to be achieved.                 --  Jeremy Kitson

Determination
There is no chance, no fate, no destiny that can
circumvent, hinder, or control the firm resolve of
a determined soul. -- From The Dead Poets Society

Diamonds
Let us not be too particular: it is better to have old secondhand diamonds than none at all.  -- Mark Twain

Die

To die is poignantly bitter, but the idea of having to die without having lived is unbearable. Erich Fromm

Difficulties
There are two ways of meeting difficulties: you alter the difficulties, or you alter yourself to meet them. --Phyllis Bottome

The best way out of a difficulty is through it --Anon.

Difficulties are meant to rouse, not discourage. The human spirit is to grow strong by conflict. William Channing

The greater the difficulty, the more the glory in surmounting it. Epicurus

Welcome difficulties and obstacles as valuable steps in 
the ladder to success. -- Brian Tracy

The difficulties and struggles of today are but the price
we must pay for the accomplishments and victories of
tomorrow. - William J.H. Boetcker

Difficulty is the excuse history never accepts. Edward
R. Murrow

When we long for life without difficulties, remind us that oaks grow strong in contrary winds and diamonds are made under pressure -- Peter Marshal


Dignity
Dignity
does not consist in possessing honors, but in
deserving them.   Aristotle


Diplomat
A diplomat is a person who can tell you to go to hell - in such a way - that you'll actually look forward to the trip.  (Caskie Stinnet, Out of the Red, Random House , 1960)

Direction
You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can
change your direction overnight. - Jim Rohn

Dirt
He that flings dirt at another dirties himself most. -- Thomas Fuller

Discipline
Discipline is the foundation upon which all success is 
built. Lack of discipline inevitably leads to failure. --
Jim Rohn

Discipline means choices. Every time you say yes to a goal or objective, you say no to many more. Sybil Stanton

Discontent
Restlessness is discontent, and discontent is the first
necessity of progress. -- Thomas Edison

Discouragement
History has demonstrated that the most notable winners
usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they
triumphed. They won because they refused to become
discouraged by their defeats.  --Bertie Charles Forbes, Publisher

Discouragement often is a result of listening to people
who have their own best interests planned for your life...
-- Doug Firebaugh

Discovery
I invent nothing. I rediscover.  -- Auguste Rodin

Mistakes are the portals of discovery.  James Joyce

Discovery consists of seeing what everybody has seen and thinking what nobody has thought.  Albert von Szent-Gyorgyi

Disposition
The greatest part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not our circumstances.  Martha Washington

The world improves people according to the dispositions
they bring into it.-- Renier Guistina Michiel

Distress
Forget the times of your distress, but never forget what they taught you.  -- Herbert Gasser

Dog
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principle difference between a dog and a man.   Mark Twain (1835-1910)

Doing

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.  Theodore Roosevelt

There are many wonderful things that will never be done if  you do not do them. --Charles D. Gill

You did what you knew how to do. And when you knew better, You did better. - Maya Angelou.

To love what you do, and feel that it matters. How could anything be more fun?- Katherine Graham

A man can do only what he can do. But if he does that each day, he can sleep at night and do it again the next day. -- Albert Schweitzer

I myself do nothing. The Holy Spirit accompishes all through me. William Blake.

Whatever you do, don't do halfway Bob Beamon

Don't just do something, sit there! Sit there long enough 
each morning to decide what is really important during the 
day ahead. -- Richard Eyre

The time when you need to do something is when no one
else is willing to do it, when people are saying it can't
be done.               --  Mary Frances Berry

You do what you have to do, to do what you want to do. 
Patricia Fripp 

Always do more than what is  required of you. George S. Patton

Doing
What cannot be altered must be borne, not blamed.  --Thomas Fuller  

Whenever you do a little thing, act as if all the  world were  watching. Thomas Jefferson

Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do. - John Wooden

We can do whatever we wish to do provided our wish is strong enough... What do you most want to do? That's what I have to keep asking myself, in the face of difficulties.  --Katherine Mansfield

Always do what you are afraid to do. Ralph Waldo Emerson

What one has to do usually can be done.  --Eleanor Roosevelt

The way to do well is to do well. Donald Rumsfeld (Rummy's Rules by  Kinney Bennett)

It is not what happens that determines the major part of
your future.  What happens, happens to us all.  It is what
you do about what happens that counts.-- Jim Rohn

You must do the thing you think you cannot do. Eleanor Roosevelt

You have not lived a perfect day, even though you earned your money, unless you have done something for someone who will never be able to repay you.  --Ruth Smeltzer

How to succeed: try hard enough.
How to fail: Try too hard.  --Malcolm Forbes.

If you  do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten.  Tony Robbins

Done
The reward of a thing well done is to have done it. -- Emerson

Boast not of what thou would'st have done, but do.  --John Milton 


Dream
Some dream worthy accomplishments; other stay awake and do them.

If you want your dreams to come true, don't sleep.  Yiddish proverb

Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep,
for every dream precedes the goal.  --Ralph Vaull Starr

Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-
winged bird, that cannot fly. -- Langston Hughes

Yes, you can be a dreamer and a doer too, if you will
remove one word from your vocabulary: impossible. --
Robert Schuller

I have learned this at least by my experiment: that if
one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors
to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success
unexpected in common hours.  Henry David Thoreau
                               
It may be those  who do most, dream most. Stephen Ecock

Dreams do not vanish, so long as people do not abandon them.--Phantom F. Harlock

The future belongs to those who believe in their dreams.
               --  Eleanor Roosevelt

Reach high, for stars hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for  every dream precedes the goal. Pamela Star

Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die
today. -- James Dean

A person with big dreams is more powerful than a person
with all the facts. -- Dayle Maloney

When you cease to dream you cease to live. -- Malcolm S.
Forbes

Whatever you can do or dream you can begin it. Boldness has genius power, and magic in it. Johann Wofgang Von Goethe

If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. Henry David Thoreau

All successful men and women are big dreamers. They
imagine what their future could be, ideal in every
respect, and then they work every day toward their distant
vision, that goal or purpose. Brian Tracy

We grow great by dreams. All big men are dreamers. They see things in the soft haze of a spring day or in the red fire of a long winter's evening. Some of us let these great dreams die, but others nourish and protect them, nurse them through bad days till they bring them to the sunshine and light which comes always to those who sincerely hope their dreams will come true.- Woodrow Wilson

Dreams expand our universe. Dreams are the heart.
Goals focus on performance. Goals are on spreadsheets. Phil Humbert


All successful people men and women are big dreamers. 
They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every
respect, and then they work every day toward their distant
vision, that goal or purpose. -- Brian Tracy

He who cherishes a beautiful vision, a lofty ideal in his
heart, will one day realize it.  Dream lofty dreams and as
you dream so shall you become... -- James Allen


Nothing happens unless first a dream.  --Carl Sandburg

A dream without a goal is just a wish. Bill Cole

I have had dreams and I have had nightmares, but I have
conquered my nightmares because of my dreams. -- Dr. Jonas
Salk

There are some people who live in a dream world, and there
are some who face reality; and then there are those who
turn one into the other. -- Douglaus Everett

The future belongs to those who believe in their dreams.   --  Eleanor Roosevelt

Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness
has genius, power and magic in it. --Goethe

Some men see things as they are and ask why. Others dream
things that never were and ask why not. -- George Bernard Shaw
       

It is good to dream, but it is better to dream and work. 
Faith is mighty, but action with faith is mightier. 
Desiring is helpful, but work and desire are invincible.   --  Thomas Robert Gaines

Hold on to your dreams for they are, in a sense, the stuff
of which reality is made. It is through our dreams that we
maintain the possibility of a better, more meaningful
life. - Leo Buscaglia
   

A person with big dreams is more powerful than a person
with all the facts. - Dayle Maloney



Dumb questions
Don't be afraid to ask dumb questions. They're more easily
handled than dumb mistakes.  --William Wister Hanes, in "High Tension" (Little, Brown)


E

Education

A good education is another name for happiness.  Plato

Education is not a preparation for life; education is life itself. John Dewey

Tis education forms the common mind; just as the twig is bent, the tree's inclined. Alexander Pope

Real education should educate us out of self into something far finer - into a selflessness which links us with all humanity. Nancy Astor

The object of education is to prepare the young to educate themselves throughout their lives. -Robert Maynard Hutchins.

Respect for the fragility and importance of an individual life is still the mark of the educated man.  Norman Cousins

Perhaps the most valuable result of al education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not.  Thomas Huxley (1825-1895)


Education is what survives when what has been learnt has been  forgotten.--B. F. Skinner

The end and aim of all education is the development of character.  Francis W. Parker

Education is the best provision for old age.  Aristotle

Training is anchored to the past.  Education looks toward
the future. -- Nido Qubein

Effort

Continuous effort, not strength or intelligence, is the
key to unlocking our potential. Winston Churchill

Emotion
Every great, successful person I know shares the capacity to remain centered, clear and powerful in the midst of emotional  storms. Anthony Robbins.

Dr. Phil: "You must get past the myth of willpower. Willpower is fueled by emotion and emotions are fickle. We make resolutions when we're emotionally pumped, but five weeks later, those emotions aren't there. And that's when it has to be about more than emotion. You have to set up your life so it's easy to do what you need to do and hard to do what you shouldn't do. If you had a toothache, you wouldn't cancel an appointment with the dentist because your sister needed your help to move her fridge; don't cancel an appointment at the gym because your sister needs your help. You deserve to make your own priority list.  Dr. Phil from "Dr. Phil's Wise Words Good Housekeeping February 2005  page 157


Endurance
To endure what is unendurable is true endurance.

Enduring
He that can't endure the bad will not live to see the good.
--Yiddish proverb

Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm is the element of success in everything. It is
the light that leads and the strength that lifts people on
and up in the great struggles of scientific pursuits and of
professional labor.
--Bishop Doane

Environment

You are a produce of your environment.  So choose the environment that will best develop you  toward your objective.  W. Clement Stone

Excellence

The quality of a person's life is in direct proportion to
that person's commitment to excellence, regardless of the
chosen field of endeavor.   -Vince Lombardi
 

No man ever reached to excellence in any one art or profession without having passed through the slow and painful process of study and preparation. --Horace

Excuse

Hold yourself responsible to a higher standard than anybody else expects of you; never excuse yourself.  Henry Ward Beecher           

If we’re always looking for excuses for why we can’t do things, we’ll never find the reasons why we can. Hal Urban

 An excuse is worse and more terrible than a lie, for an
excuse is a lie guarded.  --Pope John Paul II


   

Experience
Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterwards. -- Vernon Saunders Law

There is only one thing more painful than learning
from experience and that is not learning from experience.
--Archibald McLeish, Poet

Evaluation Criteria
There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have
contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by
these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say,
and how we say it.- Dale Carnegie

Everyday
The virtue of man ought to be measured, not by his
extraordinary exertions, but by his everyday conduct.
Blaise Pascal

Evil

When choosing between two evils, I always like totry the one I've never tried before. -- Mae West.

Excellence
 The noblest search is the search for excellence.   Lyndon B. Johnson

Excellence is to do a common thing in an uncommon way. Booker T. Washington

Excellence is doing ordinary things extraordinarily well.  John Gardner

The greatest enemy of excellence is good. Zig Ziglar

Don't  try to become great; be great now, and discover that excellence is a reward you don't need others to confirm.  Guy Finley

Excellence is  the result of 
caring more than others think is wise;
risking more than others think is safe;
dreaming more than others think is practical, and
expecting more than others think is possible. (anon)

I am always careful not to confuse excellence with perfection. Excellence, I can reach for; perfection is God's business. Michael Fox

Excellence is the gradual result of always striving to do better. Pat Riley

There is no real excellence in all this world which  can be separated from right living. David Starr Jordan

The excellent   becomes the permanent.  Jane Addams

I know that every good and excellent thing in the world stands moment by moment on the razor-edge of danger and must be fought for - whether a field, or a home, or a country.  Thornton Wilder

Excellence is the unlimited ability  to improve the quality of what you have to offer. Rick Pitino

The price of excellence is discipline.
The cost of mediocrity is disappointment. William A. Ward

The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential...these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence. Eddie Robinson

If you want to achieve excellence, you can get there today. As of this second, quit doing less-than-excellent work. Thomas J. Watson, Sr.

Excuses
99% of the failures come from people who have the habit of
making excuses -- George Washington Carver

He that is good at making excuses is seldom good at anything else. -- Benjamin Franklin

Executive Ability
Executive ability is deciding quickly and getting somebody else to do the work.  -- J. G. Pollard

Expectations
I am not in this world to live up to other people's expectations, nor do I feel that the world must live up to mine.  -- Fritz Perls 

Experience
Just when you think you've graduated from the school of experience, someone thinks up a new course.  Mary H. Waldrip

 Experience is not what happens to a man, it's what a man
does with what happens to him.   --Aldous Huxley

 

.Experience is what you get, when you do not get what you want. anon

Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely. Rodin

There is only one thing more painful than learning from experience and that is not learning from experience.--Archibald McLeish

Expression
Your expression is the most important thing you can wear.  Sid Ascher


  F

Facts
It is not so very important for a person to learn facts.  For that he does not really need a college. He can learn them from books. The value of an education is a liberal arts college is not the learning of many facts but the training of the mind to think something that cannot be learned from textbooks.  Albert Einstein (1879-1955) 

Failure
Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently.  -- Henry Ford

Failure to prepare is preparing to fail.  -- Mike Murdock

Failing to plan is planning to fail Alan Lakein

99% of the failures come from people who have the habit of
making excuses. -- George Washington Carver

Our greatest glory is not in never failing but in rising up every time we fail. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Success has made failures of many men.  Cindy Adams

There is no failure except in no longer trying.
--Elbert Hubbard.  

Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. 
Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, 
not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by 
saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing. -- Denis 
Waitley


A failure is a man who has blundered but is not capable of
cashing in on the experience. Elbert Hubbard


I am not judged by the number of times I fail, but by the 
number of times I succeed; and the number of times I 
succeed is in direct proportion to the number of times I 
can fail and keep on trying. -- Tom Hopkins

I never failed once. It just happened to be a 2000l-step
process. -- Thomas A. Edison

Faith

Failing
Failing to plan means planning to fail. What are your 
goals? -- Brian Tracy

Failure is not a single, cataclysmic event. You don't fail 
overnight. Instead, failure is a few errors in judgment, 
repeated every day. -- Jim Rohn

I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please   everybody.  -- Bill Cosby

Failure is one of life’s greatest teachers…. It forces us to look at what we’re doing and gives us the opportunity to try a new direction Hal Urban

  Hidden in our failures are sources of growth. Hal Urban

 Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising every time we fail. Confucius

 If we’re  not willing to risk failure, we’re not deserving of success. Hal Urban

 

Faith
Faith is courage; it is creative while despair is
always destructive.  --David S. Muzzey, Author

Faith that the thing can be done is essential to any great achievement.  Thomas N. Carruther

Fall
Fall seven times, stand up eight. --Japanese proverb

Fantasy
When I examine myself and my methods of thought, I come to
the conclusion that the gift of fantasy has meant more to
me than my talent for absorbing positive knowledge.
Albert Einstein

Fate
We create our fate every day . . . most of the ills we suffer from are directly traceable to our own behavior.  --Henry Miller

Fear

All forms of fear produce fatigue. -- Bertrand Russell.

There is nothing to be feared in life; all is a gift from God. L. Walkup

Death is not the biggest fear we have; our biggest fear is taking the risk to be alive – the risk to be alive and express what we really are.  Don Miguel Ruiz

Nothing in life is to be feared.
It is only to be understood.  Marie Curie

The man who fears nothing is as powerful as he who is feared by everybody. --J. C. F. von Schiller.

Action conquers fear. --Peter N. Zarlenga

Fear less, hope more;
Whine less, breathe more;
Talk less, say more;
Hate less, love more;
And all good things are yours.
-Swedish Proverb, on Life.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.    Franklin D. Roosevelt

The most drastic and usually the most effective remedy for
fear is direct action. -- William Burnham

Our deepest fear is NOT that we are inadequate. Our
deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It
is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, "Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,
talented and fabulous?" Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God: your playing small doesn't serve
the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking
so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
--Nelson Mandela

Many people fear nothing more terribly than to take a position which stands out sharply and clearly from prevailing opinion. Martin Luther King Jr.

Fist
When you clench your fist, no one can put anything in your hand. -- Alex Haley

Fool
Every American has the right to make a fool of himself if he wants, but too many abuse it.

Wise men learn by other men's mistakes, fools by their own.  H.G. Bohn

A wise man can see more from the bottom of a well than a fool can from a mountain top .  -- Unknown.

First Step
Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the
whole staircase, just take the first step.                --  Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Force

The moment a man claims a right to control the will of a fellow being by physical force, he is at heart a slaveholder. --Henry C. Wright, The Liberator, 7 April 1837

Forgiveness
The weak can never forgive.
Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. --Mahatma Gandhi

Forgiving those who hurt us is the key to personal peace.--G. Weatherly

Fragrance
The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose.  Hada Bejar     

 

Freedom
Freedom unexercised may become freedom forfeited.  -- Margaret Chase Smith.

Friendship

Every true friend is a glimpse of God. Lucy Larcom

When friends meet, hearts warm.  Proverb

No person is you friend who demands your silence, or denies
your right to grow.  --Alice Walker, American writer

Instead of loving your enemies, treat your friends a little better.  --Edgar Watson Howe

                     
The finest kind of friendship is between people who expect a great deal of each other, but never ask it.   Sylvia Bromer

A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer.  Three are even better for a triple braided cord is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12

Two are better than one....If one person falls, the other can read out and help.  But people who are alone when they fall are in real trouble.  Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive. -- Anais Nin

Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant.  --Socrates

True friends don't spend time gazing into each other's eyes. They may show great tenderness toward each other, but they face the same direction - toward common projects, interests, goals - above all toward a common Lord - C.S.Lewis

One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood.  Seneca

I find friendship to be the true...restorative cordial.  Thomas Jefferson

Friendships multiply joys and divide griefs.  H.G. Bohn

Friendship renders prosperity more brilliant, while it lightens adversity by sharing it and making its burden common.  Cicero


We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over. So in a series of kindnesses there is, at last, one which makes the heart run over.    James Boswell

Frustrations
One of the sources of pride in being a human being is the ability to bear present frustrations in the interests of longer purposes.--Helen Merrell Lynd

Future

The future is no more uncertain than the present. -- Walt Whitman

My future is in my past and my past is my present. I must now make the present my future. Vladimir Horowitz, pianist (1904-1989)

Our task is not to fix the blame for the past, but to fix
the course for the future.  --John F. Kennedy

I think all of us are looking at the future with yesterday's eyes -- Dan Burrus

Since you can't predict the future, create it.  Peter Drucker

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.  Eleanor Roosevelt

The reason why most people face the future with 
apprehension instead of anticipation is because they don't 
have it well designed. -- Jim Rohn


G

Garden

We must cultivate our garden. --Voltaire 


Genius is the ability to act rightly without precedent - the power to do the right thing the first time.   Elbert Hubbard

Genius is 1 percent inspiration, 99 percent perspiration. -- Thomas Edison

Genius is 99% perspiration and 1% inspiration. Einstein

You are a potential genius -- the number of ideas you can
suggest for improvement are virtually unlimited.-- Brian Tracy

A genius is a talented person who does his homework.  Thomas Edison

Get
The law of self-fulfilling prophecy says that you get what
you expect.  So why not create great expectations and the
highest vision possible of yourself and your world? --
Mark Victor Hansen

Getting along

The most important single ingredient in the formula of
success is knowing how to get along with people.--Theodore Roosevelt

Gift

The greatest gift is a portion of thyself. Ralph Waldo Emerson

The greatest gift we can give one another is rapt attention to one another's existence.  Sue Ebaugh

Time is the most precious gift we can give to another. L Walkup

Gift of grace:

It is not that you are worthy of the gift, but it is he gift which is worthy of your Creator"  J. H. Newman, Discourses to Mixed Congregations, Discourse 13: "Mysteries of Nature and of Grace."

Giving
Are you more thrilled about what is given to your life than
what you give through your life? Doug Firebaugh

Giving Up

Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up  is what makes it permanent.   --Marilyn vos Savant  

Glory
Glory is fleeting, but obscurity is forever.  Napoleon Bonaparte (1769-1821) 

Goal
Once the goal is set, the path reveals itself. Louise Walkup

Goals motivate. John Maxwell

All successful people have a goal. No one can get anywhere unless he knows where he wants to go and what he wants to do or be. Norman Vincent Peale

The most important thing about goals is having one.
-- Geoffrey Albert

A dream without a goal is just a wish. Bill Cole

Goal setting is the core of existence that defines life. Joanne Bonomi

Goals are simply a way of breaking a vision into smaller,
workable units.-- Nido Qubein
 

wWe all need lots of powerful long range goals to help us past the short term obstacles.--Jim Rohn

Yesterday's passions may not serve tomorrow's goals . Frederic Hudson

Short-term goals are the stepping stones to the bigger ones. Beth Pugh

Setting a goal is not the main thing.  It is deciding how you will go about achieving  it and staying with that plan.  Tom Landry

God

God enters by a private door into every individual. Ralph Waldo Emerson "Intellect" Essays, First Series

Going Down/Defeat
Inside of a ring or out, ain't nothing wrong with going down. It's staying down that's wrong.
--Muhammad Ali

Golden Rule

We have committed the Golden Rule to memory. Now let us commit it to life.   Edwin Markham

The Golden Rule  is of no use whatsoever unless you realize that it is your move.  Dr. frank Crane

Good
Every man is guilty of all the good he didn't do. -- Voltaire

He who wishes to secure the good of others has already secured his own. Confucius

Good is not good, where better is expected.
--Thomas Fuller 

Good enough never is  Debbi Field

Good Intention
Good intentions
will always be pleaded for any assumption
of power. The Constitution was made to guard the people
against the dangers of good intentions. There are men in
all ages who mean to govern well, but they mean to govern.
They promise to be good masters, but they mean to be
masters. --Daniel Webster

Good Nature

An inexhaustible good nature is  one of the most precious gifts of heaven.   Washington Irivng.

Gossip
My life changed for the better the day I realized that
when I gossiped, it ultimately hurt me much more than it
hurt the person about whom I gossiped. -- Bob Burg

Gratitude

The best way to show gratitude to God and to the people  is to accept everything with joy. Mother Teresa  1910-1997

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation
is not to utter words, but to live by them. - John Fitzgerald Kennedy

Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues but the parent of all others" -
Marcus Cicero

Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not
giving it. - William Arthur Ward

Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.  -Cicero 


Great People

Great people are they who see that spiritual is stronger
than any material force, that thoughts rule the world.
--Ralph Waldo Emerson

The real difference between men is energy. A strong will, a settled purpose, and invincible determination can accomplish almost anything; and in this lies the distinction between great men and little men.  Thomas Fuller, Chaplain to King Charles II of England

The qualities of a great man are "vision, integrity,  
courage, understanding, the power of articulation, and  
profundity of character.  
-- DWIGHT EISENHOWER (1890-1969)  

                    

Great Spirits
Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition
from mediocre minds - Albert Einstein

 Great Things
Great things are not something accidental, but must certainly be willed. --Vincent van Gogh

If you can't do great things, do small things in a great way. Don't wait for great opportunities. Seize common everyday ones and make them great. Napoleon Hill.



Greatest
I was saying, I'm the greatest"  long before I believed it.  Muhammad Ali 

The President of the United States hears a hundred voices
telling him that he is the greatest man in the world. He
must listen carefully to hear the one voice that tells him
he's not.  --Harry S. Truman

Greatness
A great man is always willing to be little.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

All greatness is achieved while performing outside your comfort zone. Greg Arnold

Some are born great. some achieve greatness, and some have public relations writers. Daniel J. Boorstin

Stay focused on your journey to greatness. Les Brown

We can do no great things only small things with great love. Mother Teresa

When you pursue greatness, you represent the courage that others don't have James Ray                 

Greed
Greed lessens what is gathered.  --Arab proverb 

Grieve

And when we grieve our losses to completion, we grow. Charles Whitfield, M.D. Healing the Child Within

 Grieving frees us to grow, to begin again, to turn around, to start fresh, One moves from overwhelming loss, to sadness, and to the loneliness of the soul. From thence, one arises like a phoenix.  L. Walkup

Group

People acting together as a group can accomplish things which no
individual acting alone could ever hope to bring about.-Franklin

 

Growth

Growth itself contains the germ of happiness.  Pearl Buck, To  My Daughters, with Love

The strongest principle of growth lies in human choice.  George Eliot

All change is not growth, as all movement is not forward. -- Ellen Glasgow

We find comfort among those who agree with us, growth among those who don'