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Walkup's Way Home   Quotes to live by

Quotations will tell the full measure of meaning,
if you have enough of them.  -James Murray

A

Accomplishment

Accomplishment and success are often the result of  
commitment and perseverance rather than skill or talent.  
--George Van Valkenburg

Achievement

If my mind can conceive it, and my heart can believe, I know I can achieve it! Reverend Jesse Jackson

Ninety-fiver percent of achieving anything is knowing what you want and paying the price to get it.  John Maxwell

Optimism is  the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence. Helen Keller

The greatest satisfaction in life is achieving what everyone said could not be done. Chinese Proverb

Action

To make progress in any field, you have to take action. John Maxwell, Thinking for a Change

When you do nothing, you feel overwhelmed and powerless.  
But when you get involved, you feel the sense of hope and  
accomplishment that comes from knowing you are working to  
make things better.   --Pauline R. Kezer  

Action   may not always bring happiness, but there is no happines without action.

Imperfect action is better than perfewct inaction. Harry Truman

Advice

Write down the advice of him who loves you
though you like it not at present. English proverb

When we ask advice, we are usually looking for
an accomplice. Joseph Louis Lagrange
 

The art of advice is to make the recipient believe he thought the thought of it himself.
-- Frank Tyger
 

Aging
Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or  eighty. Henry Ford

Agony

There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you. Maya Angelou

Ancestors

To forget one's ancestors is to be a book without a source, a tree without a root. Chinese Proverb

Anger

Anger is our friend. Not a nice friend. Not a gentle friend. But a very, very loyal friend....It will always tell us that it is time to act in our own best interests.  Julia  Cameron The Artist's Way

 

Agreeable

If you want others to agree with you, you must first be
agreeable. - Tom Hopkins

Aim

Men his only what they aim at. Henry David Thoreau

 A soul without a high aim is like a ship without a rudder.
--Eileen Caddy, Spiritual guide and author

All

None of us is as smart as all of us. ken Blanchard
 

Altering Circumstances
So often we try to alter circumstances to suit ourselves, instead of letting them alter us, which is what they are meant to do. Mother Maribel CSMV, Superior, Community of St Mary the Virgin, Wantage, England

Our Lord did not try to alter circumstances. He submitted to them. They shaped his life and eventually brought him to Calvary. I believe we miss opportunities and lovely secrets our Lord is waiting to teach us by not taking what comes.Mother Maribel CSMV

Anger
No man can think clearly when his fists are clenched. George Jean Nathan

Anger is something we feel.  It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention.  Harriet Goldhor Lerner, The Dance of Anger

Anyone can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person at the right time, and for the right purpose and in the right way - that is not within everyone's power and that is not easy.  - Aristotle

Let not the sun go down on your wrath. Ephesians 4:26

Anxiety

Every tomorrow has two handles. We can take hold of it with  
the handle of anxiety or the handle of faith.  
--Henry Ward Beecher

Anxiety is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. Arthur Somers Roche

 

Anyway

......... People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered;
forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, People may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.


If you find serenity and happiness, there may be jealousy;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.

-- Mother Theresa

Approval
If a child lives with approval, he learns to live with himself.  Dorothy Law Nolte.

Argue
There's only one thing worse than the man who will argue 
over anything, and that's the man who will argue over 
nothing. --Laurence Peter

Art of Living

Living well is an art which can be developed.  Of course, you will
need the basic talents to build upon: They are love of life and
ability to take great pleasure from small offerings, an assurance that
the world owes you nothing and that every gift is exactly that, a
gift. Maya Angelou
 

Art -Francis Bacon
The job of the artist is always to deepen the mystery.
 

Art - Salvador Dali
Those who do not want to imitate anything, produce nothing.
 

Art - Charlie Chaplin
There are more valid facts and details in works of art than there are in history books.
 

Art -Roy Lichtenstein
Art doesn't transform. It just plain forms.
 

Art --Rene Magritte
Art evokes the mystery without which the world would not exist.
 

Art  - Michelangelo
The true work of art is but a shadow of the divine perfection.

Lord, grant that I may always desire more than I can accomplish.

A man paints with his brains and not with his hands.

Beauty is the purgation of superfluities.
 

Art -Pablo Picasso
Art washes from the soul the dust of everyday life.
 

There are painters who transform the sun into a yellow spot, but there are others who, thanks  to their art and intelligence, transform a yellow spot into the sun.

Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up.
 

I begin with an idea and then it becomes something else.
 

Painting is just another way of keeping a diary.
 

Art - Auguste Rodin
Art is contemplation. It is the pleasure of the mind which searches into nature and which there divines the spirit of which Nature herself is animated.

Art/Artist
In a profound sense, each human life has the potentiality of becoming an art work.  To that degree, each of us can become an artist-in-life with our finest creation being our own Self.  Ira Progoff

A man who works with his hands is a laborer; a man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman; but a man who works with his hands and his brain and his heart is an artist. -Louis Nizer, lawyer (1902-1994)

 

Aspiring
If you aspire to the highest place it is no disgrace to stop at the second, or even the third. - Cicero, De Orstore 80B.C.

Astonish

If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astonish ourselves.  Thomas A. Edison

Attention

That which holds our attention determines our action.  William James


Attitude
It's your attitude and not your aptitude that determines your altitude

A great attitude is not the result of success; success is
the result of a great attitude. - Earl Nightingale

Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation
determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do
it. - Lou Holtz

The greatest discovery of this generation is that a human being can alter their life by altering their attitude. William James

 

First we make our attitudes. Then our attitudes make us.  Dennis Waitley

They are able who think they are able. Virgil

Attitude
It is the librarian of our past.
It is the speaker of our present
It is the prophet of our future.  James Maxwell, The Winning Attitude

Outlook determines outcome; attitude determines action.  Warren Wiersbe

Author
The two most engaging powers of an author are to make new things familiar,
and familiar things new. -Samuel Johnson, lexicographer (1709-1784)

Autobiography
Autobiography is an unrivaled vehicle for telling the truth about other people.  Philip Guedalla

B

Battle
One battle would do more towards a Declaration of Independence
than a long chain of conclusive arguments in a provincial
convention or the Continental Congress. --Samuel Adams (1722-1803) American revolutionary

Beauty

There is in true beauty something which vulgar souls cannot  
admire.   - William Congreve  
                  

Beauty is not diminished by being shared.  
- Robert Heinlein

Become

You become what you think about.  Earl Nightingale (Ear said if you spent one hour a day pursuing your dream, you'd be a national expert in 5 years.)

Beginning
The beginning is the most important part of the work.  - Plato, The Republic. Book II. 377B

Begin - to begin is half the work Ausonius

Behavior

How can you know what is in your heart? Look at your behavior. LeRoy Eims

Being

We are what we seem to be.
— Willard Gaylin, American psychiatrist (b. 1925)

Everybody must learn this lesson somewhere - that it costs something to be what you are.  Shirley Abbott, Womenfolks: Growing Up Down South

 

Believe
We are inclined to believe those whom we do not know because they have never deceived us. - Samuel Johnson

When you believe that a difficulty can be overcome, you are more than halfway to victory over it already. Norman Vincent Peale

Best - Doing the Best

It is funny about life: if you refuse to accept anything but the very best you
will very often get it. - W. Somerset Maugham

Always do more than is required of you.- George S. Patton

We have to do the best we can. This is our sacred human responsibility. -
Albert Einstein

Choose always the way that seems best, however rough it may be. Pythagoras
 

Believe in the best, think your best, study your best, have a goal for the best, never be satisfied with less than your best, try your best, and in the long run, things will turn out for the best. Henry Ford

Bicycle
Life is like riding a bicycle.  You don't fall off unless you stop pedaling.  Claude Pipper

Biography
The History Of The World Is But The Biography Of Great People.--Thomas Caryle

Blessings
Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has 
many – not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have 
some.  --Charles Dickens

Blessings come disguised as problems.  Work through your problems, and blessings will follow. L. Walkup

Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself and  
know that everything in this life has a purpose. There are  
no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given  
to us to learn from.  
--Dr. Elizabeth Kebler-Ross (1926-) US writer, founder of the  
hospice care movement

Our real blessings often appear to us in the shapes of pains,  
losses and the disappointments; but let us have patience, and  
we soon shall see them in their proper figures.  
--Joseph Addison (1672-1719) English writer, statesman  

                   
A search of one's life and soul will reveal the hand of God.  
The outpouring of his blessings come with our afflictions,  
not in spite of them. Afflictions be praised.  
--Elaine Cannon American writer  

It is difficult to accept adversity as a blessing, but time  
after time that is exactly what hard times reveal themselves  
to be. How much better can we become if we take these tests  
to be the blessings that they are?  J.A. at http://www.quotes2u.com
 

Bliss

Follow your bliss. Joseph Campbell

Books & Reading
Tis the good reader that makes the good book.  Ralph Waldo Emerson

Just the knowledge that a good book is awaiting one at the end of a long day makes that day happier.  Kathleen Norris.

A book is like a garden carried in a pocket. -- Chinese proverb

The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who can't read them.  Mark Twain

The end of reading is not more books, but more life.  Holbrook Jackson.

I find television very educational. Every time someone switches it on, I go into another room and read a good book. -- Groucho Marx

Where is human nature so weak as in the bookstore?  Henry Ward Beecher (1813-1887)

When I get a little money, I buy books; and if any is left, I buy food and clothes.  Desiderius Erasmus  (1466-1536).

Nothing will take the place of a shelf full of books by one's own chair. -- A. Edward Newton

Just the knowledge that a good book is awaiting one at the end of a long day makes the day happier.  Kathleen Norris

The worse thing about new books is that they keep us from reading old ones. Joseph Joubert

Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested. That is, some books are to be read only in parts, others to be read but not curiously, and some few to be read wholly, and with dilligence and attention. Francis Bacon

Some say life is the thing, but I prefer reading.Ruth Rendell

Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers. Charles Eliot

The true university of these days is a collection of books. Thomas Carlyle

Books are the carriers of civilization. Barbara Tuchman,

People who censor books are usually illiterate. John D. MacDonald, A Purple Place for Dying, 1964

When I get a little money, I buy books; and if any is left, I buy food and clothes. Desiderius Erasmus

There is something special about people who are interested in the printed word. They are a species all their own - learned, kind, knowledgeable and human.Nathan Pine

Certain books have exerted a profound influence on history, culture, civilization and scientific thought throughout recorded time.... In every historical era, we find overwhelming evidence of the power of the written word without which a high state of civilization and culture is inconceivable in any time or place. Robert Downs

It is absurd to have a hard and fast rule about what one should read and what one should not read. More than half of modern culture depends on what one should not read. Oscar Wilde

The worst thing you write is better than the best thing you didn't write.Unknown

No book is really worth reading at the age of ten which is not equally, and often far more, worth reading at the age of fifty and beyond.C. S. Lewis

The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. Mark Twain

Tis the good reader that makes a good book. Emerson

Reading maketh a full man, conference a ready man, and writing an exact man. F. Bacon

We read to know we're not alone -- C. S. Lewis

Born

We are not born all at once, but by bits. The body first, and the spirit later; and the birth and growth of the spirit, in those who are attentive to their own inner life, are slow and exceedingly painful.  Mary  Antin, The Promised Land

 

Bravery

Some have been thought brave because they were afraid to run away.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-82),

 

Busy
It is not enough to be busy, so are the ants. The question is: what are we busy about? - Henry David Thoreau

 



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Can

If you think you  can, you can. And if you think you can't, you're right. Mary Kay Ash, New York Times

Candidates
It is dangerous for a national candidate to say things that people might remember  -- Eugene McCarthy

Capturing ideas

If you haven't been capturing your ideas on paper, you're missing an opportunity to take them to the next level.  John Maxwell Thinking for a Change

Career

The best careers advice to the young is: "Find out what you like doing best t\and get someone to pay you for doing it." Katharine Whitehorn. English Newspaper Columnist

Challenge

Accept the challenges, so that you may feel the
exhilaration of victory. - General George S. Patton

Give yourself an even greater challenge than the one you are trying to master and you will develop the powers necessary to overcome the original difficulty.  William J. Bennett
 

Change

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. Reinhold Niebuhr
 

Character

Reputation is what men and women think of us; character is what God and angels know of us. — Thomas Paine

Character is simply habit long continued. — Plutarch

Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow.  
The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real  
thing.   --Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865), Lincoln's Own Stories 

Personality can open doors, but only character can keep  
them open.   --Elmer G. Letterman  
                   

You cannot dream yourself into a character; you must hammer  
and forge yourself one.   --James A. Froude (1818 - 1894)


Character is both developed and revealed by tests, and all of life is a test.   Rick Warren

Changes

Not everything that is faced can be changed. But nothing can be changed until it is faced. James Baldwin

To change one's life, start immediately. William James

There is nothing permanent except  change. Heraclitus, Greek philosopher

Reaching new goals and moving to a higher level of performance always requires change, and change feels awkward. James Maxwell

People are more scared of than than they are scared of death. C. Myss

God, give us the serenity to accept what cannot be changed; give us the courage to change what should be changed; give us the wisdom to distinguish one from the other Reinhold Niebuhr, Religious and Social Thinker

No one can persuade another to change.  Each of us guards a gate of change that can only be opened from the inside. Marilyn Ferguson

If you don't like the way the world is, you change it. you have an obligation to change it. You just do it one step at a time. Marian Edelman

All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy, for what we  leave behind is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter into another!

Character

People grow through experience if they meet life honestly  
and courageously. This is how character is built.  
--Eleanor Roosevelt (1884 - 1962)

Character is the only secure foundation of the state.
-- CALVIN COOLIDGE (1872-1933)

Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.
— Abraham Lincoln,
16th U.S. president (1809-1865)

Character, not circumstance, makes the person.
— Booker T. Washington, American educator and civil rights activist (1856-1915)


A man's character is his fate.  
-- HERACLITUS (c. 540 - c. 480 BC), Greek philosopher  
 

The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically... Intelligence plus character – that is the goal of true education. 
— Martin Luther King
Jr., American civil rights leader (1929-1968)

The measure of a man's character is what he would do if he knew he never would be found out.
— Baron Thomas Babington Macauley,
English historian and statesman (1800-1859)

You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.  
—
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, German poet, novelist, playwright, scientist and philosopher (1749-1832)

 

Our character...is an omen of our destiny, and the more  
integrity we have and keep, the simpler and nobler that  
destiny is likely to be.  
--George Santayana, "The German Mind: A Philosophical Diagnosis"

Every man has three characters: that which he shows, that which he has, and that which he thinks he has.
— Alphonse Karr, French journalist (1808-1890)

Children
Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them. --Lady Bird Johnson

In raising my children, I have lost my mind but found
my soul.   --Lisa T. Shepherd

 

Choices
The end result of your life here on earth will always be the sum total of the choices you made while you were here. Shad Helmstetter

Life is the sum of your choices.
— Albert Camus
, French "existentialist" novelist (1913-1960)

The strongest principle of growth lies in human choice.  George Eliot

Circumstance
The greater part of our happiness depends on our dispositions, and not on our circumstances. We carry the seeds with us in our minds wherever we go.  --Martha Washington

Civilization

The true test of civilization is not the census, nor the size of cities, nor the crops – no, but the kind of man the country turns out.
— Ralph Waldo  Emerson, American essayist, philosopher and poet (1803-1882)

Cleanliness

Better keep yourself clean and bright - you are the window through which you must see the world. G. B. Shaw

To clean up the universe, clean up your own backyard. Zen saying

Coffee

Coffee is the common man's gold and like gold, it brings to every man the feeling of luxury and nobility.  Abd-Al-Kadir  1587  

I have measured out my life with coffee spoons.  T.S. Eliot (The love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock)

[Coffee is]...the most precious of blisses.  Johann Sebastian Bach

Where coffee is served, there is grace and splendor (anonymous)

Good coffee is black as sin, pure as the angels, strong as death, and sweet as love. Creole saying

College
College is a place where a student ought  to learn not so much how to make a living, but how to live.  Dr. William Nolen.

Comfort

Blessed are they that mourn, for they shall be comforted. The Beatitudes

Commitment

Individual commitment to a group effort -- that is what
makes a team work, a company work, a society work, a
civilization work. --Vince Lombardi

Loving involves commitment. We are not automatic lovers of
self, others, world, or God. Love does not just happen. We
are not love machines, puppets on the strings of a deity
called "love." Love is a choice, not simply, or necessarily,
a rational choice, but rather a willingness to be present to
others without pretense or guile. --Carter Heywood

Communication

Once a human being has arrived on this earth, communication is the largest single factor determining what kind of relationships he makes with others and what happens to him in the world about him. Virginia Saatir Peoplemaking

 

Compassion
Sympathy sees and says, 'I'm sorry.'
Compassion sees and says, 'I'll help.  anonymous

Compassion for myself is the most powerful healer of them all. Theodore Isaac Rubin

Every moment spent expressing compassion for another is a holy moment. Dr. Richard Carlson

Complaining

I never complained of my condition but once, said an old man - when my feet were bare, and I had no money to buy shoes; but I met a man without feet, and became contented. H.  K. White

Compromise
Life is a compromise of what your ego wants to do, 
experience tells you to do, and what your nerves let you do. --Bruce Crampton

Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got.

Computers
Computer
Science is no more about computers than astronomy is about telescopes.   E. W. Dijkstra

Conscience

Cowardice asks the question, ‘Is it safe?’  
Expediency asks the question, ‘Is it politic?’  
And Vanity comes along and asks the question, ‘Is it popular?’  
But Conscience asks the question ‘Is it right?’  

And there comes a time when one must take a position that  
is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must do  
it because Conscience tells him it is right.  
-- Martin Luther King

I know what conscience is, to begin with. It is not what you  
told me it was. It is the divinest thing in us.  
--Oscar Wilde, from The Picture of Dorian Gray  

                    
All a man can betray is his conscience.  
--Joseph Conrad, from Under Western Eyes  

Never do anything against conscience even if the state  
demands it.   --Albert Einstein (1879-1955)  

                     

In matters of conscience, the law of the majority has no  
place.   --Gandhi (1869-1948)
 

Conservative
A conservative is a man who sits and thinks, mostly sits.
-- Woodrow Wilson (1856 - 1924)

Consultant
My greatest strength as a consultant is to be ignorant and 
ask a few questions. -Peter Drucker

 

Cooperation - Working Together

Dependent people need others to get what they want. Independent people can get what they want through their own efforts. Interdependent people combine their own efforts with the efforts of others to achieve their greatest success. -- Stephen Covey 

Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much. -– Helen Keller

Concern

Concern should drive us into action and not into a depression. Karen Horney, Self-Analysis

 

Contentment
We may pass violets looking for roses. We may pass contentment looking for victory.  Bern Williams

He who is not contended with what he has, would not be contended with what he would like to have. Socrates

Courage

A very popular error - having the courage of your
convictions. Rather, it is a matter of having the courage
for an attack upon one's convictions.
--Friedrich Nietzsche (1844-1900) German philosopher

With courage you will dare to take risks, have the strength
to be compassionate, and the wisdom to be humble. Courage
is the foundation of integrity.
--Kesgavan Nair

Whatever you do, you need courage.  Ralph W. Emerson

Courage does not always road. Sometimes it is the quiet voice at the end of the day, saying, "I will try again tomorrow."  Mac Anderson

There is plenty of courage among us for the abstract, but not for the concrete. Helen Keller, Let us Have Faith

Courage is a door that can only be opened from the inside. Terry Neil

Courage is fear that has said its prayers. -- Dorothy Bernard

Life shrinks or expands in proportion  to one's courage. Anais Nin

Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear. Mark Twain

Often the difference between a successful person and a failure is not that one has better abilities or ideas, but the courage one has to bet on one's ideas, to take a calculated risk - and to act. Maxwell Maltz  Motivational Writer

You become courageous by doing courageous acts...  Courage is a habit.  -- Mary Daly

Courage is the power to let go of the familiar. Raymond Linquist


Courage is the ladder on which all the other virtues mount.
--Clare Booth Luce

Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.-Ambrose Redmoon

To dream anything that you want to dream, that is the
beauty of the human mind. To do anything that you want to
do, that is the strength of the human will. To trust
yourself, to test your limits, that is the courage to
succeed. -- Bernard Edmonds

Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear - not absence of fear.  -- Mark Twain (1835-1910) 

It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it
does to have tried and succeeded. -- Anne Morrow Lindbergh

To dream anything that you want to dream, that is the
beauty of the human mind. To do anything that you want to
do, that is the strength of the human will. To trust
yourself, to test your limits, that is the courage to
succeed. -- Bernard Edmonds

Courage is your willingness to take action with no
guarantee of results. -- Brian Tracy

Courage is going from failure to failure without losing
enthusiasm. -- Winston Churchill

Courtesy

Nothing is ever lost by courtesy. it is the cheapest of the pleasures: costs nothing and conveys much. Erastus Wilman

Cowards
Cowards
die many times before their deaths; the valiant
never taste of death but once.: Julius Caesar / Shakespeare 

Creativity

The most valuable resource you bring to your work and to your firm is your creativity.  Annette Moser-Wellman, The Five Faces of Genius

Creativity
Creative minds have always been known to survive any kind of 
bad training. --Anna Freud

Credit
It is amazing what you can accomplish if you do not care who gets the credit.  -- Harry S. Truman 

 

Crisis
The crisis of yesterday is the joke of tomorrow. H.G. Wells

Critic
A critic is a man who knows the way but can't drive the car.   -- Kenneth Tynan

Criticize

He has the right to criticize who has the heart to help. Abraham Lincoln

Crown

Your cross is your crown. L. Walkup


Criticism
Criticism is prejudice made plausible.   -- H. L. Mencken

Honest criticism is hard to take, particularly from a relative, a
friend, an acquaintance, or a stranger. --Franklin P. Jones

Crown

Your cross is your crown. L. Walkup

Cynic
A cynic is a man who, when he smells flowers, looks around 
for a coffin. --H. L. Mencken


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Dare
Only those who dare, truly live. --Ruth Freedman

Days
Make each day count, but don't count each day.

How we spend our days is how we spend our lives.      --  Annie Dilliard

A day will never be anymore than what you make of it. 
Practice being a 'doer'!      --  Josh S. Hinds

 

Death


Death is not extinguishing the light; it is putting out the lamp because dawn has come.
--Rabindranath Tagore


There is no death! What seems so is transition; this life  
of mortal breath Is but a suburb of the life Elysian, whose  
portal we call Death.   -Henry W. Longfellow  

A single death is a tragedy, a million deaths is a statistic.- Joseph Stalin (1879-1953)
 

Decision

The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest  
is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do  
anything you decide to do. You can act to change and  
control your life; and the procedure , the process is its  
own reward.   --Amelia Earhart 

 

William O. Douglas writes that Chief Douglas Charles Evans Hughes told him, "Justice, Douglas, you must remember one thing. At the constitutional level where we work, 90 percent of any decision is emotional. The rational part of us supplies the reasons for supporting our predictions."

Once a decision was made, I did not worry about it afterward.  --Harry S. Truman

It's in your moments of decision that your destiny is
shaped. -- Anthony Robbins

Deeds 
Men are all alike in their promises. It is only in their deeds that they differ.-Moliere

Defeat
What is defeat? Nothing but education, nothing but the first
step to something better. --Wendell Phillips


Desire

 Tend to your dreams and your heart's deepest desire, for they are seeds planted by God in the garden of your soul. (The Latin root of the word desire is "de -- sire" meaning "of the Father" ) L Walkup

Lord grant that I may always desire more than I can accomplish.  Michelangelo

It's the soul's duty to be loyal to its own desires.  --Rebecca West

There is no such thing as can't, only won't. If you're
qualified, all it takes is a burning desire to accomplish, to
make a change. Go forward, go backward. whatever it takes.
--Jan Ashford


Despair
When I despair, I remember that all through history
the way of truth and love has always won.
There have been tyrants and murderers
and for a time they seem invincible but in the end,
they always fall -- think of it, ALWAYS.
--Mahatma Gandhi

Destiny

Destiny is not a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved. William Jennings Bryan

Destruction

What difference does it make to the dead, the orphans, and  
the homeless, whether the mad destruction is wrought under  
the name of totalitarianism or the holy name of liberty and  
democracy? 
–-Mahatma Ghandi

Destiny

No trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made. Destiny is made known silently

estiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice.  William Jennings Bryant

Destiny
Decisions determine destiny.  --Frederick Speakman.

To grow, you must be willing to let your present and
future be totally unlike your past. Your history is not
your destiny. -- Alan Cohen

Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of
choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing
to be achieved.                 --  Jeremy Kitson

 

Destroy

Man is doomed to destroy one another unless God steps in. Fessio [Naples, Florida, Ave Maria]

Diamond
A diamond is a chunk of coal that made good under pressure.  --Anon

Let us not be too particular: it is better to have old secondhand diamonds than none at all.  -- Mark Twain

Difficulties

The difficulties, hardships and trials of life, the obstacles  
one encounters on the road to fortune are positive blessings.  
They knit the muscles more firmly, and teach self-reliance.  
Peril is the element in which power is developed.  
--W. Mathews

There are two ways of meeting difficulties: you alter the difficulties, or you alter yourself to meet them. --Phyllis Bottome

The best way out of a difficulty is through it --Anon.

Difficulties are meant to rouse, not discourage. The human spirit is to grow strong by conflict. William Channing

Welcome difficulties and obstacles as valuable steps in 
the ladder to success. -- Brian Tracy

The difficulties and struggles of today are but the price
we must pay for the accomplishments and victories of
tomorrow. - William J.H. Boetcker

Difficulty is the excuse history never accepts. Edward
R. Murrow
 


Dignity
No race can prosper till it learns there is as much dignity
in tilling a field as in writing a poem.
--Booker T. Washington

Where is there dignity unless there is honesty? Cicero

Dignity does not consist in possessing honors, but in
deserving them.   Aristotle


Diplomat
A diplomat is a person who can tell you to go to hell - in such a way - that you'll actually look forward to the trip.  (Caskie Stinnet, Out of the Red, Random House , 1960)

Direction
If we don't change direction soon, we'll end up where we're going.  -- Professor Irwin Corey 

The great thing in this world is not so much where we are, but in what direction we are moving. - Oliver Wendell Holmes, Jr.

You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can
change your direction overnight. - Jim Rohn

Dirt
He that flings dirt at another dirties himself most. -- Thomas Fuller

Discipline
Discipline is the foundation upon which all success is 
built. Lack of discipline inevitably leads to failure. --
Jim Rohn

Discontent
Restlessness is discontent, and discontent is the first
necessity of progress. -- Thomas Edison

Discouragement
History has demonstrated that the most notable winners
usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they
triumphed. They won because they refused to become
discouraged by their defeats.  --Bertie Charles Forbes, Publisher

Discouragement often is a result of listening to people
who have their own best interests planned for your life...
-- Doug Firebaugh

Discovery
One of the greatest things about life, as well as the most 
frightening, is that we create our lives. What lies within
us is of our own making, and is a never ending act of 
discovery. shadmail Quote Editor 3/14/01

What people discover for themselves is far more meaningful and useful than what others tell them.  Dr. Philip Ney, Ending the Cycle of Abuse, Page 23

I invent nothing. I rediscover.  -- Auguste Rodin

Mistakes are the portals of discovery.  James Joyce

Discovery consists of seeing what everybody has seen and thinking what nobody has thought.  Albert von Szent-Gyorgyi

Disposition
The greatest part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not our circumstances.  Martha Washington

The world improves people according to the dispositions
they bring into it.-- Renier Guistina Michiel

Dispute
How many a dispute could have been deflated into a single 
paragraph if the disputants had dared to define their terms.  --Aristotle

Distress
Forget the times of your distress, but never forget what they taught you.  -- Herbert Gasser

Dividing

Nothing is particularly hard if you divide it into small jobs. Henry Ford

Divine
Whatsoever that be within us that feels, thinks, desires,
and animates, is something celestial, divine, and,
consequently, imperishable. --Aristotle

Dog
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principle difference between a dog and a man.   Mark Twain (1835-1910)


                 

Doing

The first thing to do in life is to do with purpose what one proposes to do. Pablo Casals

A true friend is someone who can make us do what we can. Ralph Waldo Emerson

The man who does things makes mistakes, but he never makes the biggest mistake of all - doing nothing. Benjamin Franklin

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the  
things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So  
throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor.  
Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream.  
Discover.   --Mark Twain 

I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13

Doing The Right Thing

We can do only what we can do. But if we do that each
day we can sleep at night and do it again the next day.
-Albert Schweitzer
Physician, philosopher, musician, theologian

I expect to pass through this world but once.
Any good therefore that I can do,
or any kindness or abilities
that I can show any fellow creature
let me do it now.
Let me not defer it or neglect it,
for I shall not pass that way again.
William Penn

Doing the impossible

Doing the impossible is the greatest form of revenge.  L. Walkup

Nothing is so embarrassing as watching someone do something that you said could not be done. Sam Ewing

Dreams

A man is never old until regrets take the place of his dreams. John Barrymore

Dog
Take a starving dog and feed him, and he won't bite your hand. This is the principal difference between a dog and a man.   - Freud
 

Doing
What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say. -Ralph Waldo
Emerson, writer and philosopher (1803-1882)

Some men have thousands of reasons why they cannot do what they want to, when all they need is one reason why they can. -– Mary Frances Berry


The world is moving so fast these days that the man who
says it can't be done is generally interrupted by someone
doing it.
-- Harry Emerson Fosdick

Lives based on having are less free than lives based either on doing or on being.
--William James   

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.  Theodore Roosevelt

To love what you do, and feel that it matters. How could anything be more fun?- Katherine Graham
 

Whatever you do, don't do halfway Bob Beamon

Don't just do something, sit there! Sit there long enough 
each morning to decide what is really important during the 
day ahead. -- Richard Eyre

The time when you need to do something is when no one
else is willing to do it, when people are saying it can't
be done.               --  Mary Frances Berry

You do what you have to do, to do what you want to do. 
Patricia Fripp 

Always do more than what is  required of you. George S. Patton

Doing
What cannot be altered must be borne, not blamed.  --Thomas Fuller  

Whenever you do a little thing, act as if all the  world were  watching. Thomas Jefferson

Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do. - John Wooden

We can do whatever we wish to do provided our wish is strong enough... What do you most want to do? That's what I have to keep asking myself, in the face of difficulties.  --Katherine Mansfield

What one has to do usually can be done.  --Eleanor Roosevelt

The way to do well is to do well. Donald Rumsfeld (Rummy's Rules by  Kinney Bennett)

It is not what happens that determines the major part of
your future.  What happens, happens to us all.  It is what
you do about what happens that counts.-- Jim Rohn

You must do the thing you think you cannot do. Eleanor Roosevelt

You have not lived a perfect day, even though you earned your money, unless you have done something for someone who will never be able to repay you.  --Ruth Smeltzer

How to succeed: try hard enough.
How to fail: Try too hard.  --Malcolm Forbes.

If you  do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten.  Tony Robbins

Done
The reward of a thing well done is to have done it. -- Emerson

Boast not of what thou would'st have done, but do.  --John Milton 

Door 
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.  --Alexander Graham Bell

 

Dots

Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can
only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust
that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have
to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma,
whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has
made all the difference in my life.  --Steven Jobs, Founder of Apple Computer

Doubt
If you would be a real seeker after truth, it is necessary 
that at least once in your life you doubt, as far as 
possible, all things. -- Rene Descartes

Dream

To dream anything that you want to dream, that is the beauty of the human mind. To do anything that you want to do, that is the strength of the human will. To trust yourself, to test you limits, that is the courage to succeed. -- Bernard Edmonds

It may be that those who do most, dream most.
-- Stephen Leacock

To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also
dream; not only plan, but also believe. - Anatole France

It is difficult to say what is impossible, for the dream of  
yesterday is the hope of today and the reality of tomorrow.  
--Robert H. Goddard

It isn't a calamity to die with dreams unfulfilled, but it  
is a calamity not to dream.... It is not a disgrace not to  
reach the stars, but it is a disgrace to have no stars to  
reach for. Not failure, but low aim is sin.  
--Benjamin Elijah Mays, American educator (1895-1984)  

To accomplish great things we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe. Anatole France
 

Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die,
life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly.
--Langston Hughes

Some dream worthy accomplishments; other stay awake and do them.

If you want your dreams to come true, don't sleep.  Yiddish proverb

Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep,
for every dream precedes the goal.  --Ralph Vaull Starr

Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-
winged bird, that cannot fly. -- Langston Hughes

Yes, you can be a dreamer and a doer too, if you will
remove one word from your vocabulary: impossible. --
Robert Schuller

I have learned this at least by my experiment: that if
one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors
to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success
unexpected in common hours.  Henry David Thoreau
                               
It may be those  who do most, dream most. Stephen Ecock

Dreams do not vanish, so long as people do not abandon them.--Phantom F. Harlock

The future belongs to those who believe in their dreams.
               --  Eleanor Roosevelt

Reach high, for stars hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for  every dream precedes the goal. Pamela Star

Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die
today. -- James Dean

A person with big dreams is more powerful than a person
with all the facts. -- Dayle Maloney

When you cease to dream you cease to live. -- Malcolm S.
Forbes

All successful men and women are big dreamers. They
imagine what their future could be, ideal in every
respect, and then they work every day toward their distant
vision, that goal or purpose. Brian Tracy

We grow great by dreams. All big men are dreamers. They see things in the soft haze of a spring day or in the red fire of a long winter's evening. Some of us let these great dreams die, but others nourish and protect them, nurse them through bad days till they bring them to the sunshine and light which comes always to those who sincerely hope their dreams will come true.- Woodrow Wilson

Dreams expand our universe. Dreams are the heart.
Goals focus on performance. Goals are on spreadsheets. Phil Humbert


All successful people men and women are big dreamers. 
They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every
respect, and then they work every day toward their distant
vision, that goal or purpose. -- Brian Tracy

He who cherishes a beautiful vision, a lofty ideal in his
heart, will one day realize it.  Dream lofty dreams and as
you dream so shall you become... -- James Allen


Nothing happens unless first a dream.  --Carl Sandburg

A dream without a goal is just a wish. Bill Cole

I have had dreams and I have had nightmares, but I have
conquered my nightmares because of my dreams. -- Dr. Jonas
Salk

There are some people who live in a dream world, and there
are some who face reality; and then there are those who
turn one into the other. -- Douglaus Everett

The future belongs to those who believe in their dreams.   --  Eleanor Roosevelt

Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness
has genius, power and magic in it. --Goethe

Some men see things as they are and ask why. Others dream
things that never were and ask why not. -- George Bernard Shaw
       

It is good to dream, but it is better to dream and work. 
Faith is mighty, but action with faith is mightier. 
Desiring is helpful, but work and desire are invincible.   --  Thomas Robert Gaines

Hold on to your dreams for they are, in a sense, the stuff
of which reality is made. It is through our dreams that we
maintain the possibility of a better, more meaningful
life. - Leo Buscaglia
   

A person with big dreams is more powerful than a person
with all the facts. - Dayle Maloney

 

Dull Man

It is the dull man who is always sure, and the sure man who is always dull. H. L. Mencken



Dumb questions
Don't be afraid to ask dumb questions. They're more easily
handled than dumb mistakes.  --William Wister Hanes, in "High Tension" (Little, Brown)

 

Duty

Let us have faith that right makes might; and in that faith let us to the end, dare to do our duty as we understand it. Abraham Lincoln

 


E


Eating & Food

 
Tell me what you eat: I will tell you what you are. -Jean-Anthelme Brillat -Savarin.  

We never repent of having eaten too little. Thomas Jefferson

A man who can dominate a London dinner table can dominate the world.  Oscar Wilde

After a god dinner, one can forgive anybody, even one's own relations.  oscar Wilde

Leave the gun. Take the cannolis.    Clemenza,  From the movie, The Godfather

All the things I really like to do are either illegal, immoral, or fattening. Alexander Woollcott

Cake is at once America's favorite food and premier art form. Marcel Duchamp

Education

  If you think education is expensive, try ignorance. - Derek Bok, Harvard University President

It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain
a thought without accepting it. -- Aristotle

The direction in which education starts a man will determine his future life.  Plato

Education is the taming or domestication of the soul's raw passions - not suppressing them or excising them, which would deprive the soul of its energy - but forming and informing them as art. Allan Bloom

An educated man should know everything about something, and something about everything. C. V. Wedgwood

Education is a wonderful thing; if you couldn't sign your name, you'd have to pay cash. Rita Mae Brown

Our progress as a nation can be no swifter than our progress in education John F. Kennedy

The foundation of every state is the education of its youth.  Diogenes

The roots of education are bitter, but the fruit is sweet.  - Aristotle

Education's purpose is to replace an empty mind with an open one. - Malcolm Forbes

The ideal teacher guides his students but does not pull them along; he urges them to go forward and does not suppress them; he opens the way but does not take them to the place. --Confucius

Education has for its object the formation of character. Herbert Spencer

Education makes people easy to lead, but difficult to drive; easy to govern, but impossible to enslave.  Henry Peter Brougham

Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper.
Education is hanging around until you've caught on. - Robert Frost

Education is better safeguard of liberty than a standing army.  Edward Everett

Education is the transmission of civilization. Ariel and Will Durant

Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterwards. -- Vernon Saunders Law

Skill to do comes of doing. Ralph Waldo Emerson

Give me the children until they are seven and anyone may have them afterward. St. Francis Xavier

In a completely rational society, the best of us would be teachers and the rest of us would have to settle for something less, because passing civilization along from one generation to the next ought to be the highest honor and the highest responsibility anyone could have. Lee Iacocca

He who opens a school door, closes a prison. -- Victor Hugo

A good education is another name for happiness.  Plato

Education is not a preparation for life; education is life itself. John Dewey

Tis education forms the common mind; just as the twig is bent, the tree's inclined. Alexander Pope

Real education should educate us out of self into something far finer - into a selflessness which links us with all humanity. Nancy Astor

The object of education is to prepare the young to educate themselves throughout their lives. -Robert Maynard Hutchins.

Respect for the fragility and importance of an individual life is still the mark of the educated man.  Norman Cousins

Perhaps the most valuable result of al education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not.  Thomas Huxley (1825-1895)


Education is what survives when what has been learnt has been  forgotten.--B. F. Skinner

The end and aim of all education is the development of character.  Francis W. Parker

Education is the best provision for old age.  Aristotle

Training is anchored to the past.  Education looks toward
the future. -- Nido Qubein

 

Effort

Continuous effort, not strength or intelligence, is the
key to unlocking our potential. Winston Churchill

Einstein
Quotes
  • A man's ethical behavior should be based effectually on sympathy, education, and social ties; no religious basis is necessary. Man would indeed be in a poor way if he had to be restrained by fear of punishment and hope of reward after death.
  • A question that sometimes drives me hazy: am I or are the others crazy?
  • I want to know God's thoughts...the rest are details.
  • The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the
    people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do
    anything about it.
    --Albert Einstein
  • Intellectuals solve problems; geniuses prevent them.
  • It is high time that the ideal of success should be replaced by the ideal of service.
  • Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former
  • Perfection of means and confusion of ends seem to characterize our age.
  • Science without religion is lame, religion without science is blind.
  • Scientists were rated as great heretics by the church, but they were truly religious men because of their faith in the orderliness of the universe.
  • Setting an example is not the main means of influencing others; it is the only means.
  • The important thing is not to stop questioning
  • The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and all science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed.
  • The most incomprehensible thing about the world is that it is comprehensible.
  • The search for truth is more precious than its possession
  • Truth is what stands the test of experience.
  • Truth is what stands the test of experience.
  • Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
  • Any intelligent fool can make things bigger and more complex... It takes a touch of genius --- and a lot of courage to move in the opposite direction.
  • Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character.
  • Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.
  • Example isn't another way to teach, it is the only way to teach.
  • Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world.
  • I am neither especially clever nor especially gifted. I am only very, very curious.
  • I love to travel, But hate to arrive
  • I think and think for months and years. Ninety-nine times, the conclusion is false. The hundredth time I am right
  • We know from daily life that we exist for other people first of all for whose smiles and well-being our own happiness depends.
  • Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen.
  •  We have to do the best we can. This is our sacred human responsibility. -
   

 

Emotion
Every great, successful person I know shares the capacity to remain centered, clear and powerful in the midst of emotional  storms. Anthony Robbins.

Dr. Phil: "You must get past the myth of willpower. Willpower is fueled by emotion and emotions are fickle. We make resolutions when we're emotionally pumped, but five weeks later, those emotions aren't there. And that's when it has to be about more than emotion. You have to set up your life so it's easy to do what you need to do and hard to do what you shouldn't do. If you had a toothache, you wouldn't cancel an appointment with the dentist because your sister needed your help to move her fridge; don't cancel an appointment at the gym because your sister needs your help. You deserve to make your own priority list.  Dr. Phil from "Dr. Phil's Wise Words Good Housekeeping February 2005  page 157

End

If you reach an admirable end through the wrong means, the  
ends ultimately turn to dust in your hands.  
--Stephen R. Covey  

Endurance
To endure what is unendurable is true endurance.

Enduring
He that can't endure the bad will not live to see the good.
--Yiddish proverb

Enjoying

When you enjoy what you do, you never get tired.  Donald Trump

Enthusiasm

Nothing great was was ever achieved without enthusiasm. Ralph Waldo Emerson

Enthusiasm is the element of success in everything. It is
the light that leads and the strength that lifts people on
and up in the great struggles of scientific pursuits and of
professional labor.
--Bishop Doane

There is real magic in enthusiasm. It spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment. -- Norman Vincent Peale

Environment

You are a produce of your environment.  So choose the environment that will best develop you  toward your objective.  W. Clement Stone

Evil
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for
good people to do nothing.--Edmund Burke

Excellence

The secret of joy in work is contained in one word - excellence. To know how to do something well is to enjoy it.       Pearl Buck                 

To aim at excellence, our reputation, and friends, and all  
must be ventured; to aim at the average we run no risk and  
provide little service.  
--Oliver Goldsmith  

No man ever reached to excellence in any one art or  
profession without having passed through the slow and  
painful process of study and preparation.  
--Horace  

                 

Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody  
expects of you. Never excuse yourself.  
--Henry Ward Beecher 

Exceptional

The thing that makes you exceptional, if you are at all, is  
inevitably that which must also make you lonely.  
--Lorraine Hansberry  



  Exams
Examinations are formidable even to the best prepared, for the greatest
fool may ask more than the wisest man can answer. -Charles Caleb Colton,  author and clergyman (1780-1832) 

Excuse

Hold yourself responsible to a higher standard than anybody else expects of you; never excuse yourself.  Henry Ward Beecher              

Exhilaration
Exhilaration is that feeling you get just after a great idea hits you and just before you realize what's wrong with it.  Unknown

Expectations

It is folly to expect men to do all that they may be reasonably expected to do. Richard Whately

Experience
Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterwards. -- Vernon Saunders Law

There is only one thing more painful than learning
from experience and that is not learning from experience.
--Archibald McLeish, Poet

Evaluation Criteria
There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have
contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by
these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say,
and how we say it.- Dale Carnegie

Everyday
The virtue of man ought to be measured, not by his
extraordinary exertions, but by his everyday conduct.
Blaise Pascal

Excellence
 The noblest search is the search for excellence.   Lyndon B. Johnson

Excellence is to do a common thing in an uncommon way. Booker T. Washington

Excellence is doing ordinary things extraordinarily well.  John Gardner

The greatest enemy of excellence is good. Zig Ziglar

Don't  try to become great; be great now, and discover that excellence is a reward you don't need others to confirm.  Guy Finley

Excellence is  the result of 
caring more than others think is wise;
risking more than others think is safe;
dreaming more than others think is practical, and
expecting more than others think is possible. (anon)

I am always careful not to confuse excellence with perfection. Excellence, I can reach for; perfection is God's business. Michael Fox

Excellence is the gradual result of always striving to do better. Pat Riley

There is no real excellence in all this world which  can be separated from right living. David Starr Jordan

The excellent   becomes the permanent.  Jane Addams

I know that every good and excellent thing in the world stands moment by moment on the razor-edge of danger and must be fought for - whether a field, or a home, or a country.  Thornton Wilder

Excellence is the unlimited ability  to improve the quality of what you have to offer. Rick Pitino

The price of excellence is discipline.
The cost of mediocrity is disappointment. William A. Ward

The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential...these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence. Eddie Robinson

If you want to achieve excellence, you can get there today. As of this second, quit doing less-than-excellent work. Thomas J. Watson, Sr.

Excuses
99% of the failures come from people who have the habit of
making excuses -- George Washington Carver

He that is good at making excuses is seldom good at anything else. -- Benjamin Franklin

Executive Ability
Executive ability is deciding quickly and getting somebody else to do the work.  -- J. G. Pollard

Expectations
I am not in this world to live up to other people's expectations, nor do I feel that the world must live up to mine.  -- Fritz Perls 

Experience
Just when you think you've graduated from the school of experience, someone thinks up a new course.  Mary H. Waldrip

Experience is what you get, when you do not get what you want. anon

Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely. Rodin

There is only one thing more painful than learning from experience and that is not learning from experience.--Archibald McLeish

Expression
Your expression is the most important thing you can wear.  Sid Ascher

Eyes

The Eyes are the window of the soul anon

The eyes are the outward extension of the brain.
Where they move activates different parts of the brain.
http://innerhappiness.com/photosbeginner1.html

 

When the eyes are steady, the mind becomes steady. http://innerhappiness.com/photosbeginner1.html

 


F

 

Facts
It is not so very important for a person to learn facts.  For that he does not really need a college. He can learn them from books. The value of an education is a liberal arts college is not the learning of many facts but the training of the mind to think something that cannot be learned from textbooks.  Albert Einstein (1879-1955) 

Never be unreceptive to facts, however discouraging, disappointing, or injurious to your personal welfare they may appear to be. Erwin W. Schell

Facts speak louder than statistics. Geoffrey Streatfield (1897-1978) Lawyer 

Failure
Failure is the opportunity to begin again, more intelligently.  -- Henry Ford

Failure to prepare is preparing to fail.  -- Mike Murdock

Failing to plan is planning to fail Alan Lakein

99% of the failures come from people who have the habit of
making excuses. -- George Washington Carver

Our greatest glory is not in never failing but in rising up every time we fail. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Success has made failures of many men.  Cindy Adams

There is no failure except in no longer trying.
--Elbert Hubbard.  

Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. 
Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, 
not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by 
saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing. -- Denis 
Waitley


A failure is a man who has blundered but is not capable of
cashing in on the experience. Elbert Hubbard


I am not judged by the number of times I fail, but by the 
number of times I succeed; and the number of times I 
succeed is in direct proportion to the number of times I 
can fail and keep on trying. -- Tom Hopkins

I never failed once. It just happened to be a 2000l-step
process. -- Thomas A. Edison

Failing to plan means planning to fail. What are your 
goals? -- Brian Tracy

Failure is not a single, cataclysmic event. You don't fail 
overnight. Instead, failure is a few errors in judgment, 
repeated every day. -- Jim Rohn

I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please   everybody.  -- Bill Cosby

 

Faith

Faith untried may be true faith, but it is sure to be  
little faith, and it is likely to remain dwarfish so long  
as it is without trials.   --Charles Spurgeon 

The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today; Let
us move forward with strong and active faith  - Franklin D. Roosevelt

I do not pray for success. I ask for faithfulness. - Mother Teresa

Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without
hope or confidence. - Helen Keller

Faith is the strength by which a shattered world shall  
emerge into the light.   --Helen Keller  

Without faith, nothing is possible. With it, nothing is  
impossible.   --Mary McLeod Bethune (1875 - 1955) Educator  


 Faith is an oasis in the heart which will never be reached  
by the caravan of thinking.   --Khalil Gibran

Faith is courage; it is creative while despair is
always destructive.  --David S. Muzzey, Author

Faith that the thing can be done is essential to any great achievement.  Thomas N. Carruther

Fall
Fall seven times, stand up eight. --Japanese proverb

Family
All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.  - Leo Tolstoy, opening line of Anna Karenina
 

Family faces are magic mirrors. Looking at people who belong to us, we see the past, present and future. Gail Lumet Buckley

The family you come from isn't as important as the family 
you're going to have. --Ring Lardner
 

What families have in common the world around is that they are the place where people learn who they are and how to be that way.  Jean Clarke, Self-Esteem: A Family Affair

Fantasy
When I examine myself and my methods of thought, I come to
the conclusion that the gift of fantasy has meant more to
me than my talent for absorbing positive knowledge.
Albert Einstein

Fate
We create our fate every day . . . most of the ills we suffer from are directly traceable to our own behavior.  --Henry Miller

Faults
Rare is the person who can weigh the faults of others with-
out putting his thumb on the scales.
--Bryon J. Langenfeld

Fear

He that fears not the future may enjoy the present.  --Thomas Fuller

Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood. Marie Curie

I am never afraid of what I know.  Anna Sewell, Back Beauty

He who is not everyday conquering some fear has not learned  
the secret of life.   --Ralph Waldo Emerson   

The most drastic and usually the most effective remedy for
fear is direct action. - William Burnham
 

Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. -- Madame Marie Curie

There are two levers for moving men -- interest and fear.  
--Napoleon Bonaparte  

                
Fear defeats more people than any other one thing in  
the world.   --Ralph Waldo Emerson


If you are afraid for your future, you don't have a  present. --James Petersen

He who fears he shall suffer already suffers what he fears. --Michel de MontaigneFortune

It is better to be feared than loved, if you cannot be both. - Niccolo Machiavelli (1469-1527), "The Prince"
 

Fear defeats more people than any other one thing in
the world.-- Ralph Waldo Emerson

The oldest and strongest emotion of mankind is fear.  
--H.P. Lovecraft  
  
                     

Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live...  
--Dorothy Thompson

               

Where fear is present, wisdom cannot be.
-- Lucius C. Lactantius

ll forms of fear produce fatigue. -- Bertrand Russell.


Nothing in life is to be feared.
It is only to be understood.  Marie Curie

The man who fears nothing is as powerful as he who is feared by everybody. --J. C. F. von Schiller.

Action conquers fear. --Peter N. Zarlenga

Fear less, hope more;
Whine less, breathe more;
Talk less, say more;
Hate less, love more;
And all good things are yours.
-Swedish Proverb, on Life.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.    Franklin D. Roosevelt

The most drastic and usually the most effective remedy for
fear is direct action. -- William Burnham

 

Feelings

Our feelings are our most genuine paths to knowledge. Audre Lorde, Black Women Writers at Work , Claudia Tate, ed.

Few

Focus on the critical few...not the insignificant many. Mac Anderson

 

Fiction
The difference between fiction and reality? Fiction has to make sense. - Tom Clancy

Finish

No one is rewarded for what they start, only for what they finish. Conover Swofford

First Step
Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the
whole staircase, just take the first step.                --  Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Fist
When you clench your fist, no one can put anything in your hand. -- Alex Haley

Focus
You always have to focus in life on what you want to achieve. Michael Jordan.

Fool
Every American has the right to make a fool of himself if he wants, but too many abuse it.

Wise men learn by other men's mistakes, fools by their own.  H.G. Bohn

A wise man can see more from the bottom of a well than a fool can from a mountain top .  -- Unknown.

Forgiveness
Forgiveness does not change the past, but
it does enlarge the future.  Paul Boese 

To err is human, to forgive divine. Alexander Pope, The Eternal Now

Forgiveness is the key that unlocks the handcuffs of hate. William Ward

There is not revenge so complete as forgiveness. Josh Billings

If you haven't forgiven yourself something, how can you forgive others.  Dolores Hueta, "Stopping Traffic: one Woman's Curse" The Progressive, Barbara L. Bael

He who cannot forgive others destroys the bridge over which
he himself must pass.  -- George Herbert
 

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. -
Mahatma Gandhi

Forgiveness is not an emotion, it's a decision. - Randall Worley

Forgiveness is the oil of relationships. Josh McDowell

Never does the human soul appear so strong as when it foregoes revenge, and
dares forgive an injury. - E. H. Chapin

The words, "I forgive" pierce deeper than any arrow. L. Walkup

The weak can never forgive.
Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. --Mahatma Gandhi

Forgiving those who hurt us is the key to personal peace.--G. Weatherly


Fortune
Fortune does not change men, it unmasks them. Suzanne Necker

Frangrance

The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose.  Hada Bejar 

Freedom
Absolute freedom mocks at justice. Absolute justice denies freedom. -Albert Camus, writer philosopher, Nobel laureate (1913-1960)

To change masters is not to be free.  
--Jose Martin Perez  

When freedom does not have a purpose, when it does not wish  
to know anything about the rule of law engraved in the  
hearts of men and women, when it does not listen to the  
voice of conscience, it turns against humanity and society.  
--Pope John Paul II  
 

Those who suppress freedom always do so in the name of law
and order.  --John V. Lindsay, former NY politician

No man is free who is not master of himself. Epictetus

               

Freedom is hammered out on the anvil of discussion, dissent,  
and debate.  
-- Hubert H. Humphrey  


Freedom unexercised may become freedom forfeited.  -- Margaret Chase Smith.

 

Friends
The best time to make friends is before you need them.  --Ethel Barrymore 

A friend is a present you give yourself.  Robert Louis Stevenson

A true friend is someone who can make us do what we can. Ralph Waldo Emerson

The ornament of the house is the friends who frequent it. Ralph waldo Emerson

The antidote for fifty enemies is one friend. Aristotle

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by  this meeting that a new world is born. Anais Nin

A true friend is the greatest of all blessings, and the one which we take the least thought to acquire.-- Franηois Duc de La Rochefoucauld (1613-80), French writer, moralist

Anger is our friend. Not a nice friend. Not a gentle friend. But a very, very loyal friend....It will always tell us that it is time to act in our own best interests.  Julia  Cameron The Artist's Way

I always thought that the great high privilege - relief and comfort of friendship - was that one had to explain nothing.   Katherine Mansfield

When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at  
his friends.   --Japanese Proverb  
 

A single rose can be my garden...
a single friend, my world.- Leo Buscaglia

To the query, "What is a friend?" his reply was
"A single soul dwelling in two bodies." - Aristotle

To love another person is to see the face of God.  
--Victor Hugo  

The better part of one's life consists of one's friendships. Abraham Lincoln

The secret of life is that all we have and are is a gift of grace to be shared.

No soul is desolate as long as there is a human being for whom it can feel trust and reverence. George Eliot

Having someone who understands is a great blessing. Janette Oke

I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gift. Frances Farmer

The greatest gift is a portion of yourself. Ralph Waldo Emerson

We are the gift of the living God to one another. Reine Duell Bethany

Only the heart knows how to find what is precious. Fydor Dostoyevsky

True friendships are lasting because true love is eternal. Henri Nouwen

You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. Dale Carnegie

Love has its source in God, for love is the very essence of His being.

Getting people to like you is merely the other side  of liking them. Normal Vincent Peale

The only way to have a friend is to be one. Ralph Waldo Emerson

Friendship consists in forgetting what one gives, and remembering what one receives. Alexandre Duman

Become genuinely interested in other people. Dale Carnegie

Friends may come and go, but enemies accumulate.  
— Thomas Hudson Jones, American sculptor (1892-1969)

A friend in need is a friend indeed. Latin Proverb

A faithful friend is a strong defense; and he that hath found him hath found a treasure. Louisa May Alcott

A friend is a gift you give yourself. Robert Louis Stevenson

Friendship is born at the moment when one person says to another, "What! You too? I thought that no one but myself. "C. S. Lewis

Think where man's glory begins and ends and say my glory was I had such friends. William Butler Yeats


Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity. Kahlil Gibran

The best way to   have a friend is to be one. Ralph W. Emerson

A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same. -Elbert Hubbard

A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they're not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they're not so bad. Arnold H. Glasow

The most called-upon prerequisite of a friend is an accessible ear.  Maya Angelou

Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: What! You, too? Thought I was the only one. -Clive Staples Lewis, novelist and essayist (1898-1963)

I cannot concentrate all my friendship on any single one of 
my friends because no one is complete enough in himself."
--Anais Nin

"Fortify yourself with a flock of friends! You can select 
them at random, write to one, dine with one, visit one, or 
take your problems to one. There is always at least one who 
will understand, inspire, and give you the lift you may need 
at the time." --George Matthew Adams

A friend can tell you things you don't want to tell yourself. Frances Ward Weller, Boot Song


No one person can possibly combine all the elements supposed 
to make up what everyone means by friendship.  --Francis Marion Crawford
 

Your best friend is the person who brings out of you the best that is within you. Henry Ford

Anything, everything, little or big becomes an adventure when the right person shares it.

 

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil, for if they fall, one will lift up the other. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

 

All who joy would win
Must share it,
Happiness was born a twin.  Lord Byron

Good company on a journey makes the way seem shorter.  Izaak Walton

The best thing to hold onto in life is each other Audrey Hepburn

Your friends live in you.  Louise Walkup

Friends live in your heart. L. Walkup

I am a part of all that I have met. Alfred Lord Tennyson
 

Every true friend is a glimpse of God. Lucy Larcom

When friends meet, hearts warm.  Proverb

No person is you friend who demands your silence, or denies
your right to grow.  --Alice Walker, American writer

Instead of loving your enemies, treat your friends a little better.  --Edgar Watson Howe

                     
The finest kind of friendship is between people who expect a great deal of each other, but never ask it.   Sylvia Bromer

A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer.  Three are even better for a triple braided cord is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12

Two are better than one....If one person falls, the other can read out and help.  But people who are alone when they fall are in real trouble.  Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive. -- Anais Nin

Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant.  --Socrates

True friends don't spend time gazing into each other's eyes. They may show great tenderness toward each other, but they face the same direction - toward common projects, interests, goals - above all toward a common Lord - C.S.Lewis

One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood.  Seneca

I find friendship to be the true...restorative cordial.  Thomas Jefferson

Friendships multiply joys and divide griefs.  H.G. Bohn

Friendship renders prosperity more brilliant, while it lightens adversity by sharing it and making its burden common.  Cicero


We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over. So in a series of kindnesses there is, at last, one which makes the heart run over.    James Boswell

Frustrations
One of the sources of pride in being a human being is the ability to bear present frustrations in the interests of longer purposes.--Helen Merrell Lynd

Future

The future comes one day at a time.
-- Dean Acheson

The future is no more uncertain than the present. -- Walt Whitman

Our task is not to fix the blame for the past, but to fix
the course for the future.  --John F. Kennedy

I think all of us are looking at the future with yesterday's eyes -- Dan Burrus

Since you can't predict the future, create it.  Peter Drucker

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.  Eleanor Roosevelt

The reason why most people face the future with 
apprehension instead of anticipation is because they don't 
have it well designed. -- Jim Rohn

 


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Garden

We must cultivate our garden. --Voltaire 

Gardeners

Let's be grateful for those who give us happiness; they are the charming
gardeners who make our soul bloom. - Marcel Proust

Genius

The secret of genius is to carry the spirit of childhood  
into maturity.   --Thomas Henry Huxley  

Neither a lofty degree of intelligence nor imagination nor
both together to the making of genius. Love, love, love,
that is the soul of genius. - Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart


To see things in the seed, that is genius. - Lao-Tzu

The principal mark of genius is not perfection but  
originality, the opening of new frontiers.  
-- Arthur Koestler  

Any intelligent fool can make things bigger and more
complex... It takes a touch of genius - and a lot of
courage to move in the opposite direction.- Albert
Einstein

Genius is the ability to act rightly without precedent - the power to do the right thing the first time.   Elbert Hubbard

Genius is 1 percent inspiration, 99 percent perspiration. -- Thomas Edison

Genius is 99% perspiration and 1% inspiration. Einstein

You are a potential genius -- the number of ideas you can
suggest for improvement are virtually unlimited.-- Brian Tracy