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Goals:  Chart and Journal Activities

Visualization must precede actualization.

A dream without a goal is just a wish. Bill Cole

(Focus Question: What are my three most important goals for this year & how will I achieve these?)

Roles & Goals Chart

Begin by taking inventory of yourself. Fill out the chart below.
Three roles have already been identified for your. Think of other roles you may have:
 church member, friend, relative, ...

Role - Student
 
This week's goal:

 

This semester's goal:

 

5 years from now in this role I imagine myself

 

Role______________  
This week's goal:

 

This semester's goal:

 

5 years from now in this role I imagine myself

   

Role - Family Member  
This week's goal:

 

This semester's goal:

 

5 years from now in this role I imagine myself

 

Role_________________  
This week's goal:

 

This semester's goal:

5 years from now in this role I imagine myself 

Role - Employee
This week's goal:

 

This semester's goal:

 

5 years from now in this role I imagine myself

   

Role_______  
This week's goal:

 

This semester's goal:

 

5 years from now in this role I imagine myself

   

Journal:

The rest of this journal activity will focus on writing an affirmation for yourself

What is an affirmation?
Affirmations are qualities you claim for yourself (even thought you may not yet possess them). You visualize yourself possessing these qualities.
  1.  Draw a straight vertical line dividing a sheet of paper in half.

  2. On the left side, write qualities you have that make you an excellent student.

  3. On the right side, write attributes that may hinder you from becoming an honor roll student. 

  4. Take five minutes for this exercise.   Once you've completed the exercise, circle the three "hindrances" that you'd most like to overcome.

Next write 3  personal affirmations per the following instructions:

First, transform "attributes that may hinder you" into affirmations.
For example, if your "hindrances" are  not organized, not motivated, not confident, 
your 3 affirmation would be patterned after the three following affirmations

1.  I am an organized, motivated and confident student, and I love life!

2.  My name is Louise.  People know I am organized, motivated and confident!

3.  I am organized, motivated and confident, and I am headed for success!

Next, circle the affirmation you like best and write it on  2 index cards (one to be scotch taped  in your journal & the other to be given to me.)

Finally, write a commitment to yourself on the last page of the journal regarding when (each day)  you will repeat these affirmations (at every stop sign - at every red light, while driving to school, before studying, upon getting up....)  Find a time that works best for you & stick to it.

Classroom Exercise:

Time permitting:  I will distribute  the affirmation cards that were given to me & will have students read these to one another (as if they were your own).  After the card is read , the individual will respond, "Yes, I know, Louise."

 

Note:  Some of the ideas for this exercise come from the Skip Downing workshop

 


Many time management experts believe in monitoring your accomplishments by checking each activity that you've completed.  Below is a sample chart that can assist you in "checking" your accomplishments

Goal-monitoring chart

Goal

Sun

Mon

Tues

Wed.

Thurs

Fri

Sat

Review vocab for 10 minutes during lunch

No less than than 4X/week

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Review important info for 20 min  before going to bed

No less than than 4X/week

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Repeat Affirmation & Visualization

At every red light

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Before creating a chart for yourself, ask, "What one simple action, if done simply and repeatedly, would greatly improve  my life?"

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I realize this has been a long exercise - too long for all of us to remember in detail.  Therefore, I invite you to think of three goals that you would like to accomplish within a limited period of time - let's say by the end of next semester.

What are my three most important goals?
Can I realistically achieve these?
How will I go about making these a reality?

 

How do your  three major goals  compare with your partner's?
Which of your partner's goals is most meaningful to him/her?
Are all your goals written in a positive manner?
     (I plan to do X in two years rather than I don't want to be doing  X in 2 years
Are your strategies for  achieving these goals similar? Are they specific?
Does your partner's short-term goals relate to his long-term goals?