Roles & Goals Chart
Begin by taking inventory of yourself. Fill out the
chart below.
Three roles have already been identified for your. Think of other roles you may
have:
church member, friend, relative, ...
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Role
- Student
This semester's goal:
5 years from now in this role I imagine myself |
Role______________
This semester's goal:
5 years from now in this role I imagine myself |
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Role
- Family Member
This semester's goal:
5 years from now in this role I imagine myself |
Role_________________
This semester's goal: 5 years from now in this role
I imagine myself |
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Role
- Employee
This semester's goal:
5 years from now in this role I imagine myself |
Role_______
This semester's goal:
5 years from now in this role I imagine myself |
Journal:
Recall Covey's statement: "What one simple action, if done simply and repeatedly, would greatly improve my life?"
Personalize Covey's statement & ask yourself which one simple action, if done simply and repeatedly would greatly improve my life as a student, my life as an employee, my life as a family member...? Write down the answer for each of your roles.
What is one action I can take this week to meet each of my weekly goals?
The rest of this journal activity will focus on writing an affirmation for yourself
| What is an affirmation? Affirmations are qualities you claim for yourself (even thought you may not yet possess them). You visualize yourself possessing these qualities. |
Draw a straight vertical line dividing a sheet of paper in half.
On the left side, write qualities you have that make you an excellent student.
On the right side, write attributes that may hinder you from becoming an honor roll student.
Take five minutes for this exercise. Once
you've completed the exercise, circle the three "hindrances" that
you'd most like to overcome.
Next write 3 personal affirmations per the following instructions:
First, transform "attributes that may hinder you"
into affirmations.
For example, if your "hindrances" are not organized, not motivated,
not confident,
your 3 affirmation would be patterned after the three following affirmations
1. I am an organized, motivated and confident student, and I love life! 2. My name is Louise. People know I am organized, motivated and confident! 3. I am organized, motivated and confident, and I am headed for success! |
Next, circle the affirmation you like best and write it on 2 index cards (one to be scotch taped in your journal & the other to be given to me.)
Finally, write a commitment to yourself on the last page of the journal regarding when (each day) you will repeat these affirmations (at every stop sign - at every red light, while driving to school, before studying, upon getting up....) Find a time that works best for you & stick to it.
Classroom Exercise:
Time permitting: I will distribute the affirmation cards that were given to me & will have students read these to one another (as if they were your own). After the card is read , the individual will respond, "Yes, I know, Louise."
Note: Some of the ideas for this exercise come from the Skip Downing workshop
Many time management experts believe in monitoring your accomplishments by checking each activity that you've completed. Below is a sample chart that can assist you in "checking" your accomplishments
Goal-monitoring chart
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Review vocab for 10 minutes during lunch No less than than 4X/week |
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Review important info for 20 min before going to bed No less than than 4X/week |
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Repeat Affirmation & Visualization At every red light |
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Before creating a chart for yourself, ask, "What one simple action, if done simply and repeatedly, would greatly improve my life?"
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I realize this has been a long exercise - too long for all of us to remember in detail. Therefore, I invite you to think of three goals that you would like to accomplish within a limited period of time - let's say by the end of next semester. What are my three most important goals?
How do your three major goals compare
with your partner's? |